well my ex boyfriend randomly imed me talking about how amazing and beautiful this one girl "kayla" is and how they just met today and how she is already so perfect. he told me they made out all the way up the chair lift and wouldnt stop rubbing it in my face and stuff because he knows i still like him
and i was like why are you trying to get me jealous and hes like hah do i really gotta try?
seriously.. idk if he really did meet her or if hes just trying to get me jealous. but its working! by alot
do you think he really does love her or he is trying to get me jealou and get my attention. i need some advice please
2007-02-21 05:49:01 · 7 answers · asked by i love him. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course he is. I mean, what a random IM?? He knows how to push your buttons, and he gets off on it from your description.
Sooooo.....why give him, EXACTLY what he wants? When you are about to react, ALWAYS do the opposite. The next time he IMs you...ignore him. Don't even respond. And stick with it.
Send a message to him that your feelings are NOT his playground!!! Grapple some of that respect back, earn his trust, and dilly-dally with HIS feelings and see how he likes it.
Good Luck!
2007-02-21 05:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she even exists, which I doubt, than good for her! She's got a wonderful man (if you can't tell I'm being sarcastic). Regardless of whether this guy is trying to get you jealous or just wants to hurt you by telling you lies doesn't matter. He's a loser and you shouldn't be worried about whether he likes you anymore. Why aren't you out there trying to make the entire world jealous? And you don't have to be a **** like his imaginary girlfriend to drive him crazy. You just have to have fun with your friends, talk to other guys and be yourself... only without giving him the time of day! Excluding his lame *** from your life will make him crazy! Go for it!
2007-02-21 05:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is trying to get your attention with these games, he's no good. It's not considerate towards your feelings, and he's a game player. Otherwise, he really likes her.. Either way, sorry to say, I think you should give up.
2007-02-21 05:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow it seems to me that he is very mean and immature...If he knows you still have feeling for him then that is a very mean thing for him to do to you. I think he reallt met the girl and wanted to rub it in your face and to show you that he moved on and you should too
2007-02-21 05:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by Michi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he is your ex right? so when he does it again.. just ignore it. Dont get jealous because there is nothing to be jealous of. If you want, you can do the same thing to him and see if its affects him.
2007-02-21 05:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is defiantly trying to make u jealous. thts what 1 of my ex boyfriends did to me and i still liked him. then we went out again. if u really like him then confront him and tell him that ur sick of hearing how great tht person is.
2007-02-21 05:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by jenn jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being childish...and so are you! If you guys are broken up there's a reason for it...think back to that reason and tell him to get a life.
2007-02-21 05:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by fade4pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋