In the last year I met my two best friends, and we basically do everything together. Recently guy issues have been getting me down and I really haven't been myself. Today, one of the two, we will call her Girl 1 had enough of me being depressed and has stopped talking to me until I sort out my guy issues. She started passing notes around about me in class, which I thought was pretty cruel.
My other best friend, Girl 2 is still talking to me but is upset as she's now piggy in the middle, and she wanted us to sleep over hers at the weekend but that looks unlikely.
But my question is, how should I resolve the issue? Should I just apologize to Girl 1, will she even accept it? I'm really to scared to solve my boy issues but at the same time I can't help feeling depressed, but it seems if i'm upset it spreads onto her. Should I even just lie about my emotions and tell her i'm over the boy issues?
2007-02-21 05:47:07 · 3 answers · asked by Elle F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are in a very analogous situation to myself. I went thru a breakup a year ago which I've had a hard time getting over. Two of my closest friends, both female (a lesbian couple actually), have consoled me and tried to give me advice. Much of the advice I tried to do, but haven't been able to. They both have acted like I didn't take their advice for reasons other than it just wasn't working for me. Now one has distanced herself from me and the other is caught between a friend and her lover.
It's just added to the depression I was already going thru.
I wish I could give you good advice on this, but I haven't figured out how to deal with my own situation.
2007-02-21 05:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Do not change who you are to make someone, especially a ***** like her, happy. Yes i do think you should sort out the issues and get over it, but she was wrong to do that and is obviously NOT your best friend, but in fact someone that uses you for her own amusement whenever its convenient for her. Let her talk her ****, and you can become the bigger/better person for ignoring her and everything she says! She'll feel retarded once everyone else realizes that she's saying a bunch of **** and is a drama queen. and if you lose all your friends to her cuz of the sh.it she's spread around, **** 'em, they'll realize one day she is a bit.ch cuz she'll do it to them too
2007-02-21 14:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! if that girl one was really your friend then why is she passing notes about u/ and if girl 2 was your friend why isn't she understanding what your going threw an not care if the other is upset she should be telling girl 1 how selfish she's being. sounds to me neither are really your friends
2007-02-21 13:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋