When it comes to past sexual partners how many is too many?
For instance for a 46 year old man? For a 26 year old woman?
2007-02-21 05:59:14 · 15 answers · asked by clints_wench 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok my Fiance ( 46 ) says he has been with 35-40 women, me ( 26 ) he is my 5th.
2007-02-21 06:03:55 · update #1
I know we have both have had prior relationships, but he talks about his all the time.
2007-02-21 06:06:21 · update #2
Okay well he has had a lot of one night stands and can't remember the names of half the women he has been with.
2007-02-21 06:17:26 · update #3
each parner should have a special meaning .... If you can't remember all of their names, than that is too many....If you can't say you had strong feelings for each one than that is toooo many...if you didn't have a close relationship with each one than that is tooooooooo many..... TOOOOOOO MANNNNY is up to U so judge yourself by your morals and standards..!!!
2007-02-21 06:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lordes D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly why does it make a difference to you? If he is with you and everything is going well, why should you care how many people he slept with? I never understand the obssession with past relationships and what happened in the past in that regard. If he slept with a few women before you, then there is more of a chance he knows what he is doing, right?
Just seems to me a ploy to find something wrong with the relationship. Maybe you are not really secure in the relationship.
2007-02-21 06:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by dskillz27 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't ask how many nor do I care to know. It's their business just as how many I've been with is mine. I'm interested in how I connect with the person I'm with and what our future holds. The only reason I might bring up past sexual partners is in a discussion of safety...but then it still wouldn't matter how many, but if he'd used protection with them all and had he been tested recently.
Doesn't matter to me if he had sex with one woman a hundred times, or a hundred women one time.
2007-02-21 06:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask it might be to many for a female guys always have a lot of beds. maybe 3 for the 26 year old women and 10 or so for the 46 year old dude
2007-02-21 06:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by m. 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i wood say for grils not more than 2 to3 partners a year and guys not more then 3 to 5 a partners a year
2007-02-21 06:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by jay 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
428 is too many. Kidding, but I think that sort of thing really comes down to individual choice and not for anyone else to decide.
2007-02-21 06:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both clean and faithful to the other then the past is past
2007-02-21 06:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
3 X the number of years you have been sexually active.
2007-02-21 07:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know you're clean (disease free) your past is your past, and its best if you leave it there. Knowing the number will get you nowhere...I wouldn't even tell my number if asked-that's nobody's business but mine.
2007-02-21 06:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't think it really matters. That's a topic couples shouldn't really talk about.
2007-02-21 06:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Tab 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋