Way too much to explain, but the bottom line is my girlfriend started hanging out with this guy that she met through a family friend. It went from talking with him a few times to every day she goes to see him for some reason or another and hangs out there till all hours in the morning. Literally till like 3:00 am. I used to like him but now I hate him... We fight over her seeing him every day but no matter what, she still sees him regaurdless of how upset I am getting. She tells me every time she goes there, but she stays there until 3 or 4 a.m. We have faught about it until I have been blue in the face but she won't stop seeing him. She does not have alot of friends & she uses this as an excuse. If I was included it would not be an issue but I am never included in thier chill out sessions.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Is she sleeping with him, or interested in him or is she just excited to have a new guy friend that is funny.
I am racking my brain over this.
Please advise...
2007-02-21 05:58:50 · 9 answers · asked by warscoob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not getting home until 4am because they wake up at 3 after having sex
2007-02-21 06:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my own personal opinion is this: there must be something other than a new friendship going on here, from a girls point of view...she is seeing him in a more romantic way...girls do not hang out with "guy friends" for several hours of the night...sorry....especially when she wont include you at any time....you seem nice, you should give her an altematime, ask her to spend less time with this person and include you so you can see firsthand or you are moving on.
2007-02-21 06:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Shanni1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing. Sorry bud, she's cheating on you. She's moved on. He is able to give her something you weren't, and I am speaking from experience. What I did was wait up for her, and get into an argument with her about why she was with him. Then one day she told me what was really going on over there, and i broke up with her. You should nip it in the butt, it's only fair to you, so you can get out there and meet someone else who will appreciate you.
2007-02-21 06:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is excited. She probably likes him more than a friend. Leave her alone for a few days, let her call you or tell her that you want to go with her the next time she tells you she's going to see him.
2007-02-21 06:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by BBW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her if she wants to continue hanging out with him that either she includes you or it's over. I am sorry but it sounds like there is something going on there. If it is causing problems then she should stop hanging out with him as much or include you like you said.
2007-02-21 06:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound jealous. i'm no longer asserting u are notwithstanding it sounds that way. i think of her "excuse" is a amazing good one. whilst u have not had pals for a quantity of time or have not got pals then of course ur gonna bounce on the possibility to work out the sole one u have. check along with her approximately it back b/c she would not understand ur reasons for feeling like this.
2016-10-02 12:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by poehlein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teall her either she invites you along or its over otherwise your just gonna go crazy wonderin what shes doing if she really loves you she'll get the clue that you're serious and that it is truly upsetting you if not its better you get out now before it gets really messy good luck
2007-02-21 06:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please believe me when I tell you to MOVE ON!!!!!!She does not respect you or your relationship at all. Trust me on this one, you won't regret leaving her, but you will regret staying in the relationship....she is already hurting you. Find someone else who not only respects you but themselves and the relationship also.
2007-02-21 07:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by WHOISTHEPUPPETMASTER? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. She doesn't care about your feelings at all. I wouldn't do that to my BF.
2007-02-21 06:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋