Way too much to explain, but the bottom line is my girlfriend started hanging out with this guy that she met through a family friend. It went from talking with him a few times to every day she goes to see him for some reason or another and hangs out there till all hours in the morning. Literally till like 3:00 am. I used to like him but now I hate him... We fight over her seeing him every day but no matter what, she still sees him regaurdless of how upset I am getting. She tells me every time she goes there, but she stays there until 3 or 4 a.m. We have faught about it until I have been blue in the face but she won't stop seeing him. She does not have alot of friends & she uses this as an excuse. If I was included it would not be an issue but I am never included in thier chill out sessions.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Is she sleeping with him, or interested in him or is she just excited to have a new guy friend that is funny.
I am racking my brain over this.
Please advise...
2007-02-21 05:59:37 · 6 answers · asked by warscoob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She may not be sleeping with him, but she sure as hell isn't respecting you or your wishes.
Ask how she'd feel in the position you are in. If she doesn't lighten up, cut her loose; she's being selfish.
2007-02-21 06:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it sounds like a little something more then just a friendship is going on. I would invite everyone over to your place or go with her. It would be fun to share some of the same friends and that way you can keep on eye on their relationship. It could be harmless fun!
If they refuse to let you in on the fun there is definitely something else going on. At that point I would explain to your girlfriend your feelings and that your relationship isn't going to work if she keeps making these choices. You are a great guy and I am sure you have many things to offer. You don't deserve to be sloppy seconds.
2007-02-21 06:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there might be a good chance there is more going on that he is saying. if i were you i would get her an ultimatum and tell her it's either you or him and see what she says. if your expressing that this is bothering you and you don't like her hanging out with him as much and she's basically telling you she doesn't care well then in so many ways she's telling you that she could careless about you and the relationship. you deserve better!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-21 06:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for you to move on. From my experience, once you try to start getting over her, that's when she'll try and come back to you. Guess it's human nature to want what you don't/can't have...The truth should come out then, too.
2007-02-21 06:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by blamb! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After speaking with her calmly - telling her of your concerns - If she has any feelings for you she should respect your wishes.
2007-02-21 06:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter what she is doing with him. If she does not respect your feelings, dump her.
2007-02-21 06:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by ya_hooligan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋