Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

Why is everybody so against sex before marriage..I think sex before marriage is ok as long as your in a long term relationship with someone your truly in love with and know your gonna marry.

2007-02-21 08:14:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering ..... if procreating or making babies was done using a little physical effort without any sexual gratification on the man's part ..... how much different would the world be ?
As a man, I obviously know how strong sexual desire can be ... especially in the teen years. And I know that many unions and many babies were made because of lust ........


So imagine what the world ..... or your world would be like without a man;s lust .....

2007-02-21 08:13:50 · 4 answers · asked by burlingtony 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Even if he has a lot of money?

2007-02-21 08:13:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well. I am going out with this guy who is 16, and I am 14. Well. he just came over over the weekend. and we did some stuff. well nothing really serious. like we touched each other, but through clothing. and we kissed of course. but thats a given cause we are teens and that is what we do... anyway. I got a hickey on my neck, and my mom saw it last night and like FREAKED OUT. and now she like doesn't trust us, and I told her some of the stuff, but not all of it. Like i didn't lie when she asked me about stuff, but I didn't just come out and tell her everything. Some stuff I did. but whatever.
now I don't think she will let us go out, or see each other.. cause it is a long distance thing. And I really really love him. And he loves me. I know he does. But now my mom is like flipping out and doesn't trust us at all. and she thinks that i have no self respect cause he gave me a hickey, and I told her that I am not ready and that I know that... But anyway, my question is, what can I do to ear

2007-02-21 08:13:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:11:20 · 30 answers · asked by junior o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am with a guy who my family hates because i took him back after somethings happened and now they don't want to have nothing to do with me really and they are trying to take my lil girl.

2007-02-21 08:11:18 · 5 answers · asked by amelia_g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wanted to fought a guy then i fought someone else . So I didn't want to fight the guy anymore. Now that i got home I want to fight him what should I do. Pluse I told him I dont want to fight you anymore.

2007-02-21 08:11:06 · 12 answers · asked by dannysiewpersad 2 in Singles & Dating

OK here's the scoop...
I am 29 about to hit the age of 30
I have never been in a realationship PERIOD..
I have persued a female friends that were only one-sided and saw me only as a nice friend.

A about five years ago I have accepted my status as single and free because my luck with love and what love has done to me..

From my single life I have achieved more single then I ever have..
Marine Corps...Degrees...Good Friends..

Now my friends are putting on the pressure of me finding someone .. and I hate it...love has brought me nothing but misery.
Everytime they make fun of my single life the more it pushes me to stay single and gut it out (to tell them off)....but I want to answer them in a more mature way..what can I say to them that will tell them I am happy single?

2007-02-21 08:10:46 · 17 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl I really like was telling me how she wanted a chinese symbol as a tattoo but wasn't sure she could handle the pain. So I had a friend paint the symbol using traditional brushes etc, and I've framed it.
Because its something meaningful, how well do you think it will go down?

2007-02-21 08:10:10 · 26 answers · asked by doobs1977 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm so excited - it was great - I can't wait until our next date! To be in the arms of a handsome man, close your eyes and . . . . I'm all goosebumps! Is it always that good?

2007-02-21 08:10:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:09:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I make THEM stop? How can I make my Grandmother, Mother, even Father, understand who I acually am (Personality-wise, clothing, language, etc...) without them thinking I've been lieing to them or need to go to the nut house?

How I can I get my mom to stop buying me these shorts, which are nice, but to my distaste, too short and....girlish? I'm a GIRL, but I don't like wearing dresses, short shorts, long skirt, mini skirts, skirts in general, very short shirts, or anything too girlish/hooker-related.

I like wearing shorts, jeans, pants, T-shirt, Longsleved shirts, and baggy shirts. Help me please, I'm going crazy with this, I hate arguing with them, but I'm REALLY uncomfortable with these kind of clothing. X(

2007-02-21 08:09:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so theres this guy a school who i really really really like. hes in the grade below me and we dont even know each other, I know his name and that but thats it. But i always find myself thinking he likes me a little because i see him looking at me alot and i dont know its really hard to explain but i think he likes me too so how can i get a way ot become friends wiht him or show him that i like him?

2007-02-21 08:08:56 · 7 answers · asked by Janelle S. 4 in Singles & Dating

I want input on what people think the progression is and what causes it to progress...i mean what do you consider "seeing someone" "dating someone" "being in a relationship" etc...and what point is it exclusive? what point is it physical? etc..

2007-02-21 08:08:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:08:34 · 1 answers · asked by Licia 1 in Family

hey what is a good song to listen too when ur in love?? o and how do u know ur in love??

2007-02-21 08:08:25 · 4 answers · asked by Jewlz s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:08:24 · 15 answers · asked by a b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfirend acts really strange about his phone, gets text messages/phone calls at all hours of the night. he now leaves his phone on silent and constantly checks it in a way so that I can't see his phone. it seems weird!

2007-02-21 08:08:20 · 11 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife has a mean streak you wouldn't believe. One minute she's fine and the next she treats me like a stranger who has cut her off in traffic...and that's probably an understatement. She doesn't even treat me like a friend, let alone her husband. It seems that she completely disregards my feelings when she says and does things while in this "mode" of hers. She claims it's "a demon" and to be honest with you, I believe her (I'm a devout Catholic and STRONGLY believe that demons exist and can possess human hosts) because my wife is a good woman, she really is. But this mean streak she gets is getting VERY old and I'm seriously thinking about leaving her...no kidding. We're going to marriage counseling (our first session is on Monday...which can't come soon enough!!) But how do I deal with her being a female dog until then...or even past then?

2007-02-21 08:07:46 · 23 answers · asked by Shawn L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were in love with someone, but you currently have a b/f would you leave your b/f for this new guy?

Problems: The b/f is the most wonderful, loveliest person who has never done anything wrong, cares and loves for me deeply and does not deserve anything bad...
New guy im in love with has numerous things wrong with him including the fact that we argue a lot, and my family dont like him that much, but at the same time, is quite lovely and i think im falling for him....(he has already declared him love for me)

What would you do?

2007-02-21 08:06:58 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a girl who likes me, but I dont like her. What school I do?

2007-02-21 08:06:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HI out there!! Right brief history after the break up was left without the house and all the debts save for the beloved credit card and three hours a wk with daughter !! Love her deeply only reason gave up house was so she had roof over head!! Spent a year feelin sorry for self then started to get self back on feet... Two years later finally can see a light at end of tunnel YAY.... but what's this turns out to be CSA gettin my details and sayin pay up We agreed to me payin as and when because of lack of income self employed but not fiddlin!!! started business and just gettin it going!! Now the difficult bit she's a benefit fraud big time but to report her will hurt daughter to pay what want to will mean never havin a place of my own and livin with mum for forseeable future.. bought stuf and hen can but apparently they been classed as presents so don't count guess who said they were presents.... only now get more time with daughter as she got new chap suddenly for more time wonder why

2007-02-21 08:06:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-21 08:06:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and we are always making secret plans and playing without our moms knowing it is so fun! but my other bf says that we will get in huge trouble some day by the way we are both 9 what should I do?

2007-02-21 08:06:09 · 14 answers · asked by americandreamerkms 1 in Friends

My boyfriend has been feeling quite low and stressed these days. He is looking for another job. He still works full-time, and in the evenings and weekends, he spends his time applying for jobs and trying to plan his career as he is not happy with his current job. We are in a long-distance relationship. I saw him less than 2 weekends ago, he came to see me. He explained to me that his situation is hard these days and he said he needs some time to focus. We are in contact and today he sent me a message letting me know about his interview. As much as I am trying to be supportive and I am trying to give him the space to focus, I really want to tell him that I would like to see him and if we could plan something. But at the same time, I don't want to make him feel like I don't respect his need to concentrate on his job right now. Is it a good idea to ask him or should I let him be and wait until he suggests for us to meet?

2007-02-21 08:05:53 · 6 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a widow. I see a mrried man. He is an adultere, I am NOT.

In the Flesh, the Bible denotes the difference between the two as follows:


Adultery => Illicit Sexual relationship by a Married or Previously Married (divorced) person.
(The marital status of the offending partner is irrelevant)


Fornication => Illicit Sexual relationship by an Unmarried and Never-Been-Married person.
(The marital status of the offending partner is irrelevant)

The bible was written by men. This justified them seeing a formerly married woman without it being a sin. (Example, marry your brother's wife if your brother dies.) If he was involved with the neighbor's never married daugther- problem. Seems clear to me.

2007-02-21 08:05:31 · 10 answers · asked by jazz41 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey my boss always tell me about very personal things of her..
i am scared of her...pls help me!!!!

2007-02-21 08:05:19 · 7 answers · asked by timetotime24hr 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i'm 19, have a fiance that i've been with for a lil over a year, still go to school, will be getting a job soon that pays well, and i live at home with my parents. i have been having sex with my fiance since a few months into our relationship and have kept it from my parents until now. my mother has never really trusted me, but i recently realize that the looked through my stuff not too long ago and found some pregnancy tests. so basically, i think she now knows about my sex life. she's been extra strict with me lately since i think she found them, but i know it will hurt her if i just come out and say that i'm having sex. not only that, but my fiance said he'd never come to my house again if my parent knew "for sure" that we were having sex. my mom has even told me that she knows what i have been doing, but is waiting for me to tell her. what should i do? should i lie and say those tests arent mine? how do i resolve this issue and everyone be at least comfortable with everything?

2007-02-21 08:04:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It happens on a consistent basis for things that do not require immediate attention, and you ignore their phone calls at work, and they E-MAIL u at work instead, would you find this irritating?

It would be done in such a fashion ... subject line = CALL ME.

You see on your caller ID, that parent has called you numerous times already; you know it is not an emergency since it happens frequently.

On a scale of 1-10 (10 being most annoyed), how annoyed would you be?

I am 32 YEARS OLD; This has been going on for YEARS!

2007-02-21 08:04:18 · 7 answers · asked by Yeeeeezzzzz 1 in Family

This q. isn't so much on dating as it is over greater issues as a whole; it's just been my experience that more ppl answer dating q's, which says something about our societal values, but...
I have never had a b/f. I used to always think,"It'll happen later--soon!" I'm almost 21. It hasn't happened.
Oh and friends? They always seem to have plans-w/ my roommate. I feel so overshadowed and ignored all the time. I never have weekend plans and I'm in Freakin' college-"the best yrs of my life." In fact, if you look at my phone, you'll find the only calls I get are from mom & dad.
I don't even think I'll even get into med school-my life dream...It's not like I even party/drink/do drugs, etc. and still, no A's.
I'm so scared that my life is going to be some joke, that I'll end up alone once my parents, God forbid, pass away, I'll be alone. I'll literally be the crazy old maid who lives in a (mediocre) house, w/ a mediocre job (b/c she didn't make it into med school). What do I do? :(

2007-02-21 08:04:11 · 8 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Singles & Dating