Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

MY FRIEND IS CHEATING ON HER BOYFRIEND WITH 2 OTHER GUYS SHOULD I TELL HIM?

2007-02-21 08:32:34 · 14 answers · asked by SUNNY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-02-21 08:31:57 · 4 answers · asked by Ken M 3 in Friends

I have had a very strong crush on a girl at school for near two years now (i'm currently a ninth grader), but I'm unable to muster the courage to tell her. I'd describe her but I haven't got enough characters. There are several things keeping me back (although I have tried to start a conversation):

1.) I'm just plain awkward when it comes to socializing with people for the first time.

2.) I'm very concerned that I might get laughed off. I'm a quiet guy, and I like to think more than speak, but when it comes to speaking to this girl, I can't think of anything to say. I go mind-dead around her, or at least I did. She no longer has any of my classes so I don't see her anywhere except when I occasionally pass her in the hall between classes. I also am not very agressive, and may appear weak.

3.) My family is lower-middle class, and I'm relatively sure her family is very-very well off.

Anyway, despite being speechless around her, her presence makes me feel elated.

What should I do?

2007-02-21 08:31:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I always catch looking at me. We make eye contact then he looks away. He came up to me once to ask a question, I answered him and he walked away. Then he came back and asked the same question. The answer was posted on the wall right in front of us. One day I almost ran into him, I think he did it on purpose. He just laughed and then I started laughing. What does this mean?

2007-02-21 08:31:42 · 4 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:31:34 · 39 answers · asked by Peachy Keen 4 in Friends

We went out for a little bit over a week and then he dumped me cause he thought that we were better off friends. Now just yesterday he asked me out again and I don't know what to say because I really like him. He's cute and all but what happens if he dumpes me and breaks my heart again? I need an answer ASAP!!! HELP!

2007-02-21 08:31:33 · 20 answers · asked by shiver 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-21 08:31:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay awhile ago, I had this guy friend that I met online and online we hit it off. On my end, he wasn't cute but he kept me on my toes so I was emotionally attached. Then we met about 4-5 months later and as usual he wasn't attracted to me yet we kept talking as friends. He was very lonely and wanted a girlfriend so I went out of my way to hook him up with a friend of mine and well the so called friend of mine told him lies after lies after lies about me that lead him to stop talking to me. Now my other friend started talking to him and claimed I was possesive, I was stalkerish, I should've got the hint when he and my other friend hooked up. If I was so bad from the get-go like he claims, why would he continue to talk to me for 4-5 months? Why wouldn't he confront me about the things that he was being told about me? He's not ended it with my so called friend and onto someone else but doesn't he think if I really wanted the whole fatal attraction thing, I wouldn't have hooked him up.

2007-02-21 08:31:15 · 2 answers · asked by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 in Singles & Dating

For a married woman to call some of her guy friends sexy? Or post to them suggestive comments...for ex. comments that say...Happy Birthday from the heart of my bottom and it have a picture of a womans naked butt?

2007-02-21 08:31:03 · 26 answers · asked by Alberto L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my guy friend has been acting like he likes me. he puts his arm around me constantly, he tickles me, he plays with my hair, he compliments me, and he's always, always around. my other guy friend is always saying how that guy likes me. but the problem is, he has a girlfriend. i don't know who she is or what she looks like. she doesn't go to our school. i feel like we're meant to be, but it can't happen if he's in a relationship. why is he acting this way ? what's going on ?

2007-02-21 08:30:58 · 7 answers · asked by yourprettyhot123 2 in Singles & Dating

agree or disagree? why, whynot?

2007-02-21 08:30:41 · 15 answers · asked by i am offended 2 in Singles & Dating

My sex life is getting boring and monotonous and routine. Kids go to bed at 830 and by 9 we're 'busy'. I might as well put it in my palm pilot as scheduled things to do today. We try to spice it up. Different positions etc. Different places are hard to do with kids in the house, and its cold outside. Its starting to feel 'robotic'. I have very little inhibitions, but my husband is not into toys etc. I have even suggested going to a swingers club, NOT to swap, cuz we are not into sharing, but something way different and exciting, and he looked at me like I had 3 heads! How do you spice it up when you and your husband are not on the same adventure page? I'm game for just about anything, how do I convince him to at least try it? I wanna do something hot and sexy and to knock his socks off!

2007-02-21 08:30:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 08:29:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married before and I have 3 kids from a previous marriage....my fiancee has never been married and has no kids. My problem is since this is his frst wedding he wants me to wear white and I don't think that I should. He doesn't even want an off white or ivory...white white is what he wants me to wear....what do you think??

2007-02-21 08:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 in Weddings

....when most marriages end in divorce.

Albert Einstein got divorced. do you think you are smarter than him?

2007-02-21 08:29:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm studying very hard and i have a lot of bad friends. I mean they don't support my goals. They think only about them selfs how to get drunk and laid. They have no goals in their life. and i'm really depresed, because i want to be some one in this life and i don't have friends who's like me. Am'i alone or there people like that.

2007-02-21 08:29:12 · 9 answers · asked by boosterspd 1 in Friends

I've been with my kids father for seven years, we were going to get married this year, he just recently found out and told me that he might have fathered a little girl who is now 5 years old but she'll be 6 the same age as our son together. Now he said he just found this out because the mother thought that it was another mans baby but the man who i'm with still has not taken a DNA test, he only thinks that it is his. I know this was six years ago but I am feeling angry, betrayed, hurt even a little jealousy. Should I forgive the man I am so in love with and try to work things out whether he is the daddy or not or should I give up on everything we have and our future together? He told me the other girl does not want to be with him I guess she only wants to know who her child's father is, but I think if she thought it was between two men it could very well be another man also. Am I in denial, because I don't think he is the father but I am also hoping he is not. Please help!

2007-02-21 08:28:53 · 14 answers · asked by christina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i really like this guy, but he doesnt go to school anymore, as in he dropped out. were 16. And i know if i go out with him my mom will want to meet him. and my mom is racist, i am not. The boy i like is white but acts gangsterish. i know my mom will hate him what should i do, i really care about him, and im not ganna let my moms poor judgement effect us.

2007-02-21 08:28:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is what happened. Monday morning I took my daughter to work( her car is in the shop). On the way home, I hit a patch of ice at a stop sign and skidded out into the middle of a state highway. Thankfully, no semi's were coming or I wouldnt be here today. My son was very upset about this, because the police never called my husband to salt( he works for the street dept.) My son e-mailed the police and asked where they were and why they wasnt out patroling and keeping an eye on the roads( they call 90% of the time to say the roads need attn.) Now my husband is really mad at my son, and when he( my son) gets home from work, I have a feeling theres going to be a big fight!! Was my son wrong to e-mail the cops?? Or is my husband being a jerk about the whole thing?? I'm to upset to think right about this, so I need people's opinions. Thanks alot!!!!

2007-02-21 08:28:41 · 11 answers · asked by pebbles 6 in Family

Now I'm not too sure if i like her yet, but there is this freashmen in my study hall and she is so cute and funny. I am a sophmore and I am honestly one of the real rednecks @ my school. What should I do to start a conversation with her? We aren't friends really, but I have talked to her one or two times, and she seems so funny, and smart....what should I do......p.S, Im 15 and shes prolly 14

2007-02-21 08:28:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When guys in a club are fighting over a girl...is there ever a time they breakdance fight?

2007-02-21 08:27:37 · 14 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

Like how do you act and ALL!?

2007-02-21 08:27:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but i feel like im turning into a stalker i text him so much should i bother tonight???? do lads like to be constantly texted, by a girl that u like, i think he likes me, should i let him text me from time to time insted of me constantly textin him???

2007-02-21 08:27:19 · 13 answers · asked by misssherlock06 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend is a great stay at home mom and I am a career woman. Whenever I talk to her she dosen't have much to talk about. She updates me on her son, but that is about it. What should I do?

2007-02-21 08:26:49 · 3 answers · asked by funnyhaha 2 in Friends

2007-02-21 08:26:43 · 22 answers · asked by kiddvillian 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, everyone, tell me what YOU think love is.

2007-02-21 08:25:58 · 10 answers · asked by dani 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know if she likes me does she notice me at all or should i ask her out i need tips

2007-02-21 08:25:40 · 6 answers · asked by Eddy M 1 in Singles & Dating

In a bad time in my life I cheated on my wife. I found out what its affect on everyone involved, and don't want to repeat it. So if i told you that I had cheated in the past, would you go out with me? Could you ever trust me? Would you want to know this information at all?

2007-02-21 08:25:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in love with her. She's great i mean once in 5th grade i kissed her but the problem is she just broke up with her boyfriend. But i want to date her so bad. She's cried so much and i've tried to help her through the breakup. So my question should i date her or should i wait until she recovers from the breakup?

2007-02-21 08:24:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:24:05 · 20 answers · asked by Val 3 in Singles & Dating