ok, i really like this guy, but he doesnt go to school anymore, as in he dropped out. were 16. And i know if i go out with him my mom will want to meet him. and my mom is racist, i am not. The boy i like is white but acts gangsterish. i know my mom will hate him what should i do, i really care about him, and im not ganna let my moms poor judgement effect us.
2007-02-21 08:28:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
screw what your mom says if you like him and he likes you shoot for the freeking stars hey your mom isn't the one goin out with him si she tell her that when she's mad at her for dating him if she does get mad this'll work trust me
2007-02-21 08:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by ducky girl 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Actually that will b a poor judement on ur part. Why would u want 2 b w/ someone who is not doin anything 4 himself? U're probably not thinking about marriage, but when ur 16 there's things that u want 2 do, that he won't b able 2 do. What if there's a school dance, u can't go w/ him cause he's not n school. It might seem as though ur mom is trying 2 ruin something good 4 u, but she's only looking out 4 ur best interest. Date some1 who is n school doin something 4 themselves, they don't have 2 b geeks, but they can b smarter then dropping out of school @ 16
2007-02-21 08:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a loser. Do whats best for your future adn stay away from him. There is a reason your mother is against him. You may be too young to realize, but the decision you make today can REALLY mess up your life. Stay away from a thugish high school drop out, he has no future. WHy can't he change his ways to be with you, bring himself up to YOUR level? See 16 year old girls don't think about that. Tell him to step his game up so he can meet the parents, tell him to go back to school don't just accept him for what he's doing now.
2007-02-21 08:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is true you have to stand up for yourself BUT unfortunately you live under your mom's roof and I guess is "her house her rules". if you think this whole thing is going to bring you trouble... why do you insist on making your life difficult? you are attracted to the guy, ok, I understand but you are only 16 so don't turn this into an obsession. I believe your mom has no right to be racist and hopefully at some point in your life she will understand she is wrong but, don't get yourself in trouble just because you like a guy.
2007-02-21 08:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try & explain to your mom about what she can expect and request that she keeps an open m ind. I'm not preaching here, but why would you want anything to do with a guy who's a drop-out? What kind of future does he have? Also.....it's a show of character when someone drops out of school. It shows that they can't handle responsibility. He's going nowhere fast and you'll be going with him if you let yourself. Of course, I don't know the whole situation, so if you really like the guy and truly believe that he is worthy of you, then talk to your mom first before going out with him.
2007-02-21 08:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way for this world to change and people views to change is if younger people like yourself are brave and show the older generation that skin colour does not matter.
We are all human and I see no reason why you cant be happy.
Just be carefull with the "Gangsterish" one.... Why do girls like the bad boys?
2007-02-21 08:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Fantom Doughnut Eater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you attracted to him? Do you just feel pity for him because he dropped out of highschool? What are the benefits that you can get from him if you go out with him (and marry, perhaps)? Do you really love him? Does he seem to be flirtish to other girls? Is he smart enough to communicate well with other people?
You have to ask these questions to yourself if you're considering serious relationship with a guy. It's your life; We're not the ones who have control over your life.
2007-02-21 08:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a gangster? Probably not, so why would you want be someone who is pretending to be what he's not.
Also you do realize that a drop out will have a future of food stamps and misery.
You're only 16, there will be plenty of men in your future for you to piss off your mom with...
2007-02-21 08:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Nichole D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what's going to happen when she finds out, it will be worse. ANd you need to tell the dropout if he plans on making a living inthe real world to change his ways or else he will end up working at a gas station. Because now a days to make a good living you need to have diploma. But since he was a man and dropped out i guess he can change my oil for minium wage.
2007-02-21 08:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, the best thing is to let your b/f shows your mom how good he can be (if he is) & be sure you are thinking if you really love him & he really cares about you, then you guys would be able to overcome any obstacles, & show her that it's not about the appearances, it's a matter of faith, loyalty, honesty & trust you two have got for each other. If she's a good mother, she'd understand.
2007-02-21 08:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ACTS gangsterish (I guess that's a word)? I suggest you stay in school, get an excellent education. There is plenty of time for "LOVE"...later...... Don't date this "gangsterish" boy. Think about it.
2007-02-21 08:33:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋