Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

2007-02-21 08:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

make him understand that i have needs that need to be fulfilled and that he needs to open up with me. Tell me how he feels and how can make him tell me what is wrong in our relationship? i'm just tired of the same old thing over and over in our relationship. its time for a change. i need real answers

2007-02-21 08:42:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a long distance relationship with someone I loved completely and totally. We're broken up now, and after we broke up, we promised to be the best of friends. So far, I've held up my end of the bargain, but he hasn't his. Should I let it go, since we're still so far apart, or continue to pursue his friendship? His ignorance of me is getting quite aggrivating [if it even is ignorance of me].

2007-02-21 08:42:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I like in school but i dont really talk to her, and she lets other perverted guys play with her hair and they do alot of other perverted stuff and she lets them do it. She enjoys it too, but I feel like killing someone when i see that happen. I get so mad and feel like stabbing someone. is this normal?

2007-02-21 08:41:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:41:05 · 2 answers · asked by muslimah12 1 in Friends

A man may choose to remain single and date both women, but is it wrong for him to have feelings for both of them...

2007-02-21 08:40:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated on me and I confronted him. He denied everything. As a result of that, I got closed to his brother. We started messing around and now we have strong feelings for each other, it has been a year. I am still with my husband but things are not the same and I don't know what to do. I like my husband but I don't think I love him anymore. I am actually with him because we have two children and I don't have proof about him cheating. The only thing I have its calls, the girl saying they have kissed and after timed past his brother admitted to me that they had would meet at his apartment. I promise his brother I wouldn't say what he told me. My husband cheated on me and in the past he has been violent. Although, I know I now am doing the same. I feel that I love his brother but I know its wrong. What should I do?

2007-02-21 08:40:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 08:39:44 · 12 answers · asked by \Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

If your brother's ex sent you a message online and asked if you could help her get in touch with him after they fell out would you? If they never had too much drama? What if he had a new girlfriend, but the ex just wanted to see how he was doing, not try and get back with him???

2007-02-21 08:39:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how did u get it? also the same question for your friend or girlfriend or boyfriend?

2007-02-21 08:39:05 · 14 answers · asked by crazychick 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has been feeling very unhappy with his job situation. He sent me a message yesterday that he feels so unhappy and stressed out. He has been applying for new jobs, after working the whole day. What is the best way to support him? I became very needy of him a couple of weeks ago, crying to him as he has become focused. He said he was sorry but he needed to focus. He said that I don't support him. I have started to give him space and things have improved but he is not as attentive as he used to be?

2007-02-21 08:38:54 · 12 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So here's the deal, this guy and I have been off and on for years.
We've never taking it to the next level, but both are very interested too I assume. We recently had a text convo, and things got a bit naughty... but when I tried to slow things down a bit (he asked for a visual, I politely refused) he got pissy and end the convo.
Maybe its me, but how could someone be that sensitive??? Is this a guy thing?

2007-02-21 08:37:52 · 8 answers · asked by wonka 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:37:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can't believe how hurt i feel over this guy i work with. he had spent so much time flirting with me, calling me up at night, etc. i really thought he was interested. I thought he was shy so i told him i would go do something fun with him if he wanted. The next day, the phone calls stopped. He started behaving erratically towards me, sometimes very friendly, sometimes cold, sometimes taking photos of me w/his phone sometimes sending sexual jokes. It's at the point where this has all really hurt me and I'm trying to move on. But i feel awful. I feel like a loser nobody will ever be interested in, someone who people only play games with. I don't even want to be friendly towards him bc it hurts me but he sits right next to me. How am I going to get over this? I am really in pain over it all. Please please say something that might help. I am 36 female, never had a steady boyfriend but people say i am attractive but intimidating. I feel like a freak for never having had a boyfriend.

2007-02-21 08:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by Jebbie 7 in Singles & Dating

Just kidding.I am not a cave man.I don't pull my women by the hair.lol.I know people from my race do.lol.I am bored.

2007-02-21 08:36:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:36:36 · 6 answers · asked by wakedreamin4 1 in Friends

thanks for your answeres

2007-02-21 08:36:18 · 13 answers · asked by niloofar s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've had suspicions for a while about my girl cheating.. after confronting her many times, she isn't going to admit it.. she swore up and down that she didn't, but not on her kid's life.. i know it's wrong to swear on your kids life but she normally does it, this time she tells me she isn't because thats wrong.. She was hiding emails, calls, and messages from me to get help from this guy to get on a police department. She tells me her friend cheated on her b/f as well, and that her friend isn't going to tell him because she loves him and it was a mistake and she loves him. Is this a sign too?

Anyway, the first question, do you think she's cheating?

Second, I think she's fixing to tell her best friend through email and Im going to catch it. Once I have proof, what do I do next?

2007-02-21 08:36:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 08:36:05 · 11 answers · asked by lets talk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You take a vow to love the other party, the honor the other party, and to cherish the other party, as well as to keep yourself only for him/her. So why isn't it cheating when he/she hates you or dishonors you? Vows were broken there, too.

2007-02-21 08:36:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sort of in a 'getting serious' relationship.Unfortunately my boyfriend's best friend happens to be my worst enemy.It seems she takes all my 'alone time' with him up.When i confront him about it all he can say is "She is my best friend I can't just brush her off.We've known eachother since forever etc." The only thoughts that run through my head is 'yea right.' I hate the sight of her, her voice annoys me, and when she says hi to me i get this cold shudder because I know its fake.Rumor has is that they were eachothers 'First' and if it is so I can't help but to feel a bit envious. She knows all there is to know about him and more and all I know about him are the simple things.Sometimes he hangs up with me just to drive her to the store.One time I even noticed how their little 'Friendly' game turned flirtatious. I'm jealous of her but yet I still have no clue why when I have him and she doesn't.Any advice?

2007-02-21 08:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by @ _ease_wit_lyfe 1 in Singles & Dating

My question is, if I am serious with this new guy but never really "dated" around after my divorce, will I regret getting into a serious relationship again?

2007-02-21 08:35:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had suspicions for a while about my girl cheating.. after confronting her many times, she isn't going to admit it.. she swore up and down that she didn't, but not on her kid's life.. i know it's wrong to swear on your kids life but she normally does it, this time she tells me she isn't because thats wrong.. She was hiding emails, calls, and messages from me to get help from this guy to get on a police department. She tells me her friend cheated on her b/f as well, and that her friend isn't going to tell him because she loves him and it was a mistake and she loves him. Is this a sign too?

Anyway, the first question, do you think she's cheating?

Second, I think she's fixing to tell her best friend through email and Im going to catch it. Once I have proof, what do I do next?

2007-02-21 08:34:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a best friend who is in a wheel chair and i find that loads of people treat her really differnet to when they are talking to someone else! Like for instance they are either way to OVER nice, or they treat her like a five year old when she is 14! like this one girl who is younger than her babys her, i just want to slap her! any one know?

2007-02-21 08:34:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-21 08:34:30 · 10 answers · asked by this true nigga 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 08:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by sammie 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that is a really stupid question to ask, but i need to know from the girls mostly , how u want a boyfriend to be and to do with u , u get me

how to be a good boyfriend?

2007-02-21 08:34:03 · 5 answers · asked by Bruno D 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you want him/her to?

2007-02-21 08:33:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 08:32:56 · 20 answers · asked by yunginz 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15 and she is 55. my mom's friend always takes me out for dinner and to the dairy queen. prolly once a week. she seems to like me a lot. she always calls me honey and sweets. she kisses me goodbye on the cheek. she buys me stuff and calls me a lot to talk. she has kids but they are adopted and are in their 20's. does she like me?

2007-02-21 08:32:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family