A man may choose to remain single and date both women, but is it wrong for him to have feelings for both of them...
2007-02-21 08:40:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not wrong to have feelings for both of them but you need ot be honest and not hide the relationships from them because you don't want to hurt one and have them go psycho on you.
2007-02-21 08:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for him to be dating two women at a time, and yes it is wrong having feelings for both. Because if you cared about them that much you know that those feelings could hurt both of them in the long run. Just think about what you are getting into
2007-02-21 16:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sexylova49 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes b/c that is technically cheating and blasting this across the internet isn't going to help you any. look i believe you can only have one real love and what you are doing to these girls is wrong but having feelings for both of them well it can be ok on a certain level but being in love well you just can't. before saying you are in love just think of how you feel towards them and then really decide if you are. let your heart do the work. its the only one that can tell you that you are in love.
2007-02-21 16:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Steelers Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man has feelings for two women, then I would say that those feelings are not love, but rather a strong attraction to both women. When one loves another in a deeply committed, romantic love sort of way, he or she does not think about anyone else.
2007-02-21 16:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dating is fine, but eventually your going to have to choose. You cant date forever and one or the other are going to grow tiered of just dating and want something more. I suggest you put some space between yourself and the both of them and then see whos company you miss the most. Good luck!
2007-02-21 16:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by TheLight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think personally, that it is only fair to love one person at a time. If you truly love someone from the bottom of your heart, you stay with that person forever, and there's no room to love anyone else. If you think you love 2 people, then maybe you don't love either? maybe they both are just simply LUST.
but i mean.. it's all you man. do what your heart tells ya.
2007-02-21 16:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by beauty&brains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's truly love then you need to decide which one to be with. It isn't fair to the women and someone will be really hurt in the end. Better to get it over with now. Unless they are ok with it then hey, go for it! But I'm assuming they don't know about each other....
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2007-02-21 16:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong, you cant help who you like. You just have to be careful. i was actually in love with two men, and my friends used to make fun of me and say that I had two boyfriends. Which now that I think about it, I did!
Anyway, when they found out about each other it was really bad. I ended up lonely and heartbroken!
2007-02-21 16:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong for men to have feelings, it's what he does that needs to be addressed. Men are attracted to different women for various reasons. It's human nature. Different women are attractive in their own way. Your actions are dependent on what's in your heart. Your morals will steer you right if you listen to them.
2007-02-21 16:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by normansbro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
Society has been in the mode of trying to brainwash people that you can only be in love with one person at a time. This isn't the case.
My last relationship was with two people. They loved me and each other. It was an intensely romantic relationship. I still love and miss them both.
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2007-02-21 16:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋