I'm studying very hard and i have a lot of bad friends. I mean they don't support my goals. They think only about them selfs how to get drunk and laid. They have no goals in their life. and i'm really depresed, because i want to be some one in this life and i don't have friends who's like me. Am'i alone or there people like that.
2007-02-21 08:29:12 · 9 answers · asked by boosterspd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some people grow up quicker than their friends..There is nothing wrong with wanting something better in your life..Try meeting new people , join a club or study group to find people who now have more in common with you.
2007-02-21 08:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by ibsawdust 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are not allowing positive friends to come into your life by continuing to befriend the negative friends. It is great that you have set goals for yourself and realize that you must align yourself with same like people who also have goals. Once you let go of the negative, you will attract other people in your life who you will share more in common with. Please do not hang on to any negative karma just for the sake of friendship, for you see you are better off by yourself than to have loser type personalities around draining you of your positive energy . You have to make the change and from what I have read it will not be a great loss.
2007-02-21 08:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a new click, some that are on the same wave link that you are.People that have No goals are just dreamers.If they were your friends really, they would see where you are coming from and want to go to.You're aren't alone a lot of people make friends with losers and never see them for what they are, you have so consider yourself lucky....
2007-02-21 09:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, I think is time to find new friends. They will support you and what not. It seems like you can go on a wrong diraction with these curent homies of yours. Sooner or later, you are going to end up like them, too. I suggest you find yourself new homies to hang out with. Some who will want to strive for a future like yourself. It's never impossible to make new ones, ok. You just gotta be yourself. Start talking to other people and they will accept you. Good Luck!
2007-02-21 08:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think alot of people think they are alone... it seems like no one truly understands what you are going through right? its really cool that you have your morals and you stand by them. try not to let their immaturaty and lack of motivation get you down... i bet if you actually used your motivation and just focused on improving yourself right now, im sure your friends will see how great you are doing and might be jealous and will in turn mimic you and then there you go you have the friends you want... or you may attract friends that are like that. good luck!
2007-02-21 08:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by Aura 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should little by little try to edge awy from these people cause in the long run your gonna be the one suffering from them being around you. they're probably not gonna be anyone in life if they only care about getting 'laid' and whatnot. or u could just come out and tell them that they need to get their life together.
2007-02-21 08:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah i am one of them if u want u can email me at barroom_babyblue n we can talk if u need to talk i am here for u i know how it fells so dont think u r by your self cause u r not i dont have friends mayb we can b friends
2007-02-21 08:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by barroom_babyblue 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow- sorry they are so short-sighted. I'd say try to make friends that are amibitious like yourself. Good luck.
2007-02-21 08:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try lithium dude
2007-02-21 08:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋