If you were in love with someone, but you currently have a b/f would you leave your b/f for this new guy?
Problems: The b/f is the most wonderful, loveliest person who has never done anything wrong, cares and loves for me deeply and does not deserve anything bad...
New guy im in love with has numerous things wrong with him including the fact that we argue a lot, and my family dont like him that much, but at the same time, is quite lovely and i think im falling for him....(he has already declared him love for me)
What would you do?
2007-02-21 08:06:58 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is quite easy to answer. If you feel this way towards another guy, then it's obvious the guy you are with is not the right one for you, no matter how lovely he is. It may be that you are just bored with your current boyfriend, but if you have such feelings for another guy, then firstly finish the relationship with you current boyfriend first. This is the only decent thing to do.
2007-02-21 08:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is always greenier on the other side or so its said what appeals to you about this other guy do you feel bored in your current relationship and just want to have some fun because you may leave your perfectly nice bf for this jerk and wind up regretting it once the trhill of the chase is over. If i were you i would try spicing things up in my current relationship and really thinking what is best for you in the long run but if you are not in love or happy with your current bf there is no point in stringing him along allow him to move on and find someone who will return his affections.
2007-02-21 08:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by heather d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Miss Terious--mmmmm--numerous things wrong with him is a red flag and so is arguing a lot--that will only get worse. I don't think you love your old boyfriend and are looking for a mate that you think needs changing--sort of a motherly instinct. Keep dating more and you will find someone that has qualities that are more in line with your old boyfriend--but one that you feel like you don't need two--lol--good luck
2007-02-21 08:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with my bf, the fact that you argue isn't the greatest sign and if your family don't like him either? I'm sure they are a good judge of character. The other guy might just like cause your unavailable? Good luck x
2007-02-21 09:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave him, you'll regret it. He is good to you and you would never, ever find anyone that matches the one you're with now. It is a passing fantasy...Let it remain that. Don't let the day come when you need consistency and certainty and faithfulness and trust come and you're alone when you know that you have let it all slip through your fingers - that it one of the worst feelings on the planet.
2007-02-21 08:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by X29 SSR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your b/f is a good man then you shouldn't be messing around on him in the first place. Did you ever stop to think that the new guy might be trying to screw something good up and when the new b/f leaves then what do you have. Nothing. I say get rid of the the new and say with the old if he makes you happy.
2016-05-24 03:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously hunny that was easy for me when i had the same problem i just went with my heart go for what you want not what others want and if it doesn't work does it matter....
theres plenty more fish in the sea, i go by what my bro told me " we are strong no body can tell us what to do love is a battle field"
but if you truly love him back stay with him no matter what !!!!!!!
2007-02-21 08:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by johnwizwoz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant love the person who loves you, you will resent staying with them. If you follow your passion, it may burn out quickly, you need to decide which course fits your character so that you will be comfortable with your choice in the long term
2007-02-21 08:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have fallen for someone else then things cant be 100% with your current b/f so if i was you leave it for now and see how things go but remember you always find excuses to stay with someone so think bout what you want and what makes you happy no1 else
2007-02-21 08:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up first before you cheat on your bf. You need to stay with whomever you think you will have a better future with
2007-02-21 08:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by SavingCats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋