i am with a guy who my family hates because i took him back after somethings happened and now they don't want to have nothing to do with me really and they are trying to take my lil girl.
2007-02-21 08:11:18 · 5 answers · asked by amelia_g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask yourself--Would I want my daughter dating this guy? The answer should give you a pretty clear understanding of your family's objections. Forget the guy! Your first priority should be your daughter.
2007-02-21 08:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get married you do not just marry the person. You also marry the persons family, which means he will always have to deal with your family, and you his. So Listen to your family!!! They will always be there for you. It sounds doubtful if this guy would be. Watch any daytime tv drama, court, or talk show to learn you are a FOOL to take a person back because some "things" happened. I know a girl who did, and she is still married to an abusive thug with 3 kids, & no way out. She did not listen. She did not "git while the gittin was good". She allowed this man to manipulate her with his so called "love". If he begs you and is insistent that you stay with him-DON'T TRUST IT!!
So do this: Look around at other men. Make a list of the qualities of other men that you like. Sensitive, understanding, easy going, & easy to talk to, not to mention makes you heart flutter. All are important. Now how does he stack up? BE HONEST NOW, CAUSE IT WON'T GET EASIER! TELL HIM GOOD-BYE!
2007-02-21 16:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you take him back after "somethings happened'? Apparently those things are not good things or your family wouldn't hate him - and - those "somethings happened" WILL happen again. Don't fool yourself. Are you that deperate? AND, you have a little girl? What are you doing? The answer to your question - Dump the loser, take care of your girl, get back "in" with your family!!! Also, be very careful about any men that are near your daughter...you never know. Children are gifts from God. Quit screwing yours up.
2007-02-21 16:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by tlc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family loves you. Once they realize that there is nothing they can do about you taking him back they will learn to accept it.
2007-02-21 16:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why they don't like him. Be real careful that this stuff he did before doesn't happen again.
They want to protect you and your daughter. They may have a good reason.
2007-02-21 16:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋