2007-02-21 08:09:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do any future kids a favor, and don't have them. You sound like VERY SELFISH PEOPLE!!
2007-02-21 08:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what i understand you and your wife want kids, but don't want to raise them or take care of them..well my advice is this DO NOT HAVE ANY OF YOUR OWN!!! instead you can just simple donate to a charity that caters to needy kids or become a mentor. Or again adopt a child from overseas where all you have to do is send a small financial amount to the foundation and they will ensure the child gets what it needs...in return you will receive pictures and a report on how this particular child is progressing....
2007-02-21 08:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have kids and not take care of them or raise them? What would be the point of that? Put them up for adoption so people who can't have children can have them.
2007-02-21 08:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by sanj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say get puppies instead,but even puppies need love and care.Do you realize how selfish you sound?Do you understand how many children there are in this world already who need loving parents?You do not need to procreate and make innocent children just so that you and your wife can have the experience of childbirth.If you really want to "have" kids and not have to raise them,sponser a child in a third world country.
2007-02-21 08:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by MAMACITA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I dont quite understand why you want to have kids if you dont want to raise them or take care of them. But if you really want kids you could have a full time nanny take care of them like celebrities do.
2007-02-21 08:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way you both want to have kids and then not raise them, this thoes not make any sense, I sugest to go to a family terapist, and explore way you want kids but dont want to take care of them, having a child is a delicate situacion is not like a shoe you buy and trow away, u both want kids for the fact of showing and saying you have a kid like its like a new car, so u can be like the other people that have kids, but this is not like this, leave them for thoes that wish to have kids and to love and care them, I sugest for both of you get a pet, no it will strave of attention, so you know what go traveling, do some adventures tougueter and volunter with some kids and see if you both have what it takes to have and take care of a child.
2007-02-21 08:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by novastarlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a single mom and I feel blessed to have my child in my life and to be able to raise him with moral values and to enjoy quality time with him and doing things together....Becoming a parent ..means u have a responsibility of a human being all to yourself, you are responsible for the rearing of the child...if u are in no way going to get involved in the child's life, and u simply want to get pregnant and have kids...but not be parents and nurture them...then u are wrong about what parenting is all about, babies are not toys ..to have , keep and put away.....I suppose you posted this question out of fun....but to think of having a baby and to just have the baby and not be involved in the baby's life is totally unacceptable and irresponsible...If u are not ready for a child...don't even think of having one,be safe and protect yourselves.-
2007-02-21 08:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by LatinSpice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to take care of them, then you are not ready for kids right now. When you have kids it takes a lot of time, patience and dedication. And it seems like you guys are'nt ready for this type of commitment quite yet.
2007-02-21 08:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats the point in having them then? You could hire a nanny but that wouldn't be very fair on your kids
2007-02-21 08:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't even be for real. What would you want a child for if you don't want to take care of them. No offense, but you are a total retard.
2007-02-21 08:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by tlc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does the word reponsibility mean to you children are not a game, I think you are old enough to take this step it is a great experience, & believe me once you have a child you can't give your child away it s something within good luck
2007-02-21 08:16:11 · answer #11 · answered by kitycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋