Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

I've not spoken to my close female friend for 3 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.

She's txt bck:i really do not have the energy to keep explaining things to you.I will be civil but i'm afraid i feel the close friendship is lost...........

We MET ON FRIDAY at a friends party,we spoke a lot,but she still looked hurt+uncomfortable at times.

I apologised for hurting her i.e. wanting no contact - she snaped bck saying YOU NEVER HURT ME! GOOD/BAD RESPONSE??

I asked her if she'll join us on our group roadtrips - she said YES! - A POSITIVE SIGN OF FRIENDSHIP RESTARTING???

As she left I said that hopefully/possibly see you in a few months -she replied I'll see you at the roadtrip - we said bye and she gave me a tight hug - ANOTHER POSITIVE SIGN???

She needed a hug from my mate as it was too much for her to take in!

IS THE FRIENDSHIP REALLY LOST???Why she hurt???

2007-02-18 06:54:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this dude n rlly want to turn himm on....to make him go like nuts over me.....well u know what i mean by, "turn on"......any ideass?

2007-02-18 06:54:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i just got in this relationship with this boy and i really liked him and stuff. But then i heard some stuff about him and then i was like i dont know if i still want to talk to him or not. So i started to avoid him and then i realized i couldnt really stop liking him at the time. And i really still like him....i talk about him all day...so i started to call him and no one didnt answer....so im thinking that maybe hes just not home but then my friend called and told him how i felt and he told her the story of how people was just lieing to me about that stuff but then my friend told me some stuff and you are gonna trust your friend so i believed her....but i really liked him though....So now im calling him and stuff and hes avoided me now and im really feeling bad about it now...cuz now i see how he felt when i was avoiding him...and it really hurts....but now i have to look in his face everyday. and i really like him. but its my fault we are not together so...i just need your advice.

2007-02-18 06:54:15 · 9 answers · asked by iluvmickey 2 in Singles & Dating

who was the last person that made you feel like saying that???...just curious...;0)

2007-02-18 06:53:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She said she sometimes has doubts and she feels that it is normal to have doubts but i feel like i asked her to marry me and i didn't have any doubts that we will be together forever. Am i looking to deeply into it. I feel like my love for her is stronger because i didn't doubt it for one second. WHAT DO YOU THINK ?

2007-02-18 06:53:23 · 2 answers · asked by nulldetecter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i split with ex 5 weeks ago, i like her 2 bits and will do anyhing to see her happy. i knew how my ex got treated by her previous bfs so i treated her like a princess got her watches, flowers perfumes etc spoilling her. she says she likes me, fancies me and has got feelings for me... but at the moment can only give me friendship. i want her soo much cos i like her i try to break all contact with her and she gets upset and i do and we dont end up doing it. we was supposed to meet on valentines and i cancelled so she rearranged the day after and we went to the cinema and i usally grab her hand and tiggle her leg but this time i never so instead she got my hand and tiggled my leg and placed my hand on her leg and i kept on moving it and she got upset. She even came in for a kiss for the first time ever i just kissed her lip and moved away. she now txts me and rings me first all tym as i used to txt her and ring her all the time do you think i can get her back? would she come back help

2007-02-18 06:53:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

maybe out of anger

2007-02-18 06:52:55 · 4 answers · asked by non active 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How would someone my age show that he likes me what are the signs??
BY THE WAY IM 14 HOW WOULD SOMEONE MY AGE SHOW SIGNS THAT HE LIKES ME
IM A GRL OBVIOUSLY

2007-02-18 06:52:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please Help! My Dumb Sister Would Like To Know

2007-02-18 06:51:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 06:51:30 · 11 answers · asked by ehhmm... 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do pretty much all guys just go for looks? There are MORE important things than looks in girls! "Im not going to say looks arent important, but there are other things that are more important!" there could be a nice,talented girl but just because her smile is funny or something, nobody likes her! Can't guys see whats on the inside. . .not the outside!? God made us different for a reason! So why do guys make fun of girls for how they look? And only look on the outside. . .not the inside? please help me out here!

2007-02-18 06:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by Unknown. 3 in Singles & Dating

does it mean "you are hot"

2007-02-18 06:50:45 · 17 answers · asked by Lee Edward 1 in Singles & Dating

If I had a dollar foer how many times someone on this system asks, "How do I know if he/she likes/loves me?" I could retire.

Obviously, previous answers to these questions are not making it into the hands of the people asking them, and that is a shortcoming of the system.

But, wtf, this is not rocket science. If you want to know how another feels about you, you talk to them, and you ask them out on a date, and go from there.

If they won't talk to you, or go out with you, then it is the end of the story..

2007-02-18 06:50:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have only had one girlfriend and she had to ask me out. thats how pathetic i am.

2007-02-18 06:50:41 · 10 answers · asked by Aaron C 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been through so much and we are trying to fix our relationship. I went to my sisters for one night and he went out with his buddies drinking. I spoke with him several times and i havent heard from him since it has almost been 48 hours. He has not called or emailed me. What does that mean? Is he cheating on me or what else should i think?

2007-02-18 06:50:39 · 15 answers · asked by Krista H 1 in Singles & Dating

Niether one has cheated on each other. We have 2 lovely little girls, don't argue alot, and the love life is great!

2007-02-18 06:49:39 · 23 answers · asked by pullersgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a year ago I shared a bed with this guy and he held me until i slept because i was still upset about catching my ex of a few yrs cheating(they r mutual friends)this guy was so sweet.I saw him 2 months after and he told me i was"killing him"i sent hima text a couple weeks after that and he never replied.I called him a couple days ago(a year later)and was straight forward with him and said"you are eating me alive"he said the feelings were mutual and he had no idea i had felt that way.He said he has been seeing someone for a month now, so i told him he had to tell me to move on and let it go and he said he cant. I told him he had to, and he said no he cant because he thinks im so beautiful.Why wont he tell me to let it go?

2007-02-18 06:48:03 · 9 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 06:47:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what does a guy think when a girl drunk dials him just to say hi and nothing more??

2007-02-18 06:46:04 · 9 answers · asked by psu143 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf mate has come round and they r down stairs i left them for a bit then went down to say hi and that. then my bf just looked at me and told me to go and play with my dolls and was picking on me infront of his mate and made me feel really small :-( and recently been calling me names and stuff. whats up with him why carnt i join in coversation with him and mate i dont embasses him.

2007-02-18 06:45:25 · 10 answers · asked by shell 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that has this problem .One of our mutual friends husband has been trying to get my friend to go out on a date with him.She doesn't want to because she has a boyfriend .Her boyfriend is going to leave her if she doesn't tell the metual friend about her husband.How should she handle this problem?I really don't know what to tell her.

2007-02-18 06:44:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Has it ever happened to You? Testomonies?

2007-02-18 06:44:45 · 21 answers · asked by Ana♥Banana 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a Christian while my girlfriend is not, and I am trying to keep my word to God by not having any sexual relationship with her tell we are married, and she understands that. we just started going out with each other 2 weeks ago.

She doesn't mind at all just sitting at home and chilling since she really doesn't have money to spend, and I don't mind taking her out on dates, but she likes to pay sometimes. But right now all we do is watch random television shows, go rent movies or eat food. Which is not so bad and we talk sometimes about our future.


But I would like to know if you have any suggestions of games or other activities we can do at home or for free in MD. Thank you in Advance

2007-02-18 06:44:24 · 8 answers · asked by whom_god_giveth 1 in Singles & Dating

I havent talked to my bf lately, and he apologized for that before he started not talking to me as much--and i have been going crazy. I noticed ive been throwing tantrums and fits when im by myself.
i feel like hes ditching me to hang out with his friends to get high cause he knows i dont approve of it...
WHAT DO I DO?? plz help i think im gonna cry again.

2007-02-18 06:44:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read really good questions & try to give an answer that in some way could help , & then I read some one's answer that's really nasty . There are people out there that really need help .

2007-02-18 06:42:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to have a relationship. Leave your name, EMAIL, gender and anything else you feel I should know about you. I may email you back saying how I feel about you.
From,
Grace

2007-02-18 06:42:04 · 6 answers · asked by Gemmy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He wants to be my boyfriend is he foreal I thought he just like me for the sex? I don't get it

2007-02-18 06:41:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i was soo caught up for years with my ex i thought i will never love anyone again and everything i did i always thought about him and i fealt i couldnt move on...so yesterday my friend told me to pray and ask god to show me a sign how to move on , so i prayed and i begged god to please show me a sign...so yesterday i went to the movies and the actor in the movie was everything im looking for in a man in real life ,i fell soooo in love with the actor,even when i was in the movies i pictured my ex sitting besides me and the actor on the other side and i didnt want anything to do with the ex anymore i wanted the actor...now this is my question ,do you thing god showed me a sign that im capitable of falling inlove again??? i know i cant be with the actor but do u think that was my sing that i will feel for someone stronger again??? please no rude answer s if you dont understand my question ...thank you..

2007-02-18 06:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by Exotic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't mind going to Arkansas, Texas, or Kansas.

2007-02-18 06:41:07 · 7 answers · asked by PINK 1 in Family

I thought that dating was kind of practice for marriage. I also believe that I can do anything in the Lord and I have made a lot of mistakes in our relationship, but I am willing to let God guide my life from now on. He doesn't want to continue and I'm hurt because I do. He also believes in God and I know that it could work but I guess I've messed up too much...I would appreciate any serious advice because I need it.

2007-02-18 06:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by megan 2 in Singles & Dating