Ok i just got in this relationship with this boy and i really liked him and stuff. But then i heard some stuff about him and then i was like i dont know if i still want to talk to him or not. So i started to avoid him and then i realized i couldnt really stop liking him at the time. And i really still like him....i talk about him all day...so i started to call him and no one didnt answer....so im thinking that maybe hes just not home but then my friend called and told him how i felt and he told her the story of how people was just lieing to me about that stuff but then my friend told me some stuff and you are gonna trust your friend so i believed her....but i really liked him though....So now im calling him and stuff and hes avoided me now and im really feeling bad about it now...cuz now i see how he felt when i was avoiding him...and it really hurts....but now i have to look in his face everyday. and i really like him. but its my fault we are not together so...i just need your advice.
2007-02-18 06:54:15 · 9 answers · asked by iluvmickey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pass him a note and tell him to give you a call, or just say to him one day at school, I need to talk to you about something very important. and express yourself, if he does not want to listen, then, just go your separate ways, at least you tried to talk to him. and make new friends!
2007-02-18 07:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He knows how you feel. It's up to him to decide now, in his own time, whether or not he still wants to know you. He's just taking some time to make up his mind. Your calling him is letting him know he has the upper hand and can keep you hanging. So, leave him alone. He will make up his mind sooner and you will know what you need to know sooner, then you may have to make up your own mind about whether or not you still want to be with him. 2 wrongs don't make a right after all, and getting even by not talking with you when you're ready to talk, even if just to tell you that he needs some time to think, is uncool. Good luck. Learn your lessons. Listen to your gut.
2007-02-18 07:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start making little moves everyday - like on Monday say Hi. On Tuesday say How are you? Wednesday - Did you hear the (name a new song) what do you think?
If he doesn't respond to you, then you will need to move on. It is not worth it to keep torturing yourself if he is not talking back.
2007-02-18 06:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by pinaykezzes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel jus tell him all that ...stuff when u c him dont call him 2 say it since hes avoiding u ...send im a email or message on myspace or write him a letter by the way can u answer my new question thanx
2007-02-18 06:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you messed it up and now u either have 2 talk 2 him 2 try and fiz it, or u forget about him.
2007-02-18 06:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by musicislife808 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lovers come and lovers go friends are for ever so if you want a good lover make sure they are your friend first like they back yopur play
2007-02-18 07:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Raymond B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say sorry..move fast before everthing goes to late..and dont ever listen to anyone as long that u dont know if its really true.. to see is to believe..remember that words..
2007-02-18 07:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by lene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id say move on.
2007-02-18 06:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Peekaboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you like him?
2007-02-18 06:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋