Has it ever happened to You? Testomonies?
2007-02-18 06:44:45 · 21 answers · asked by Ana♥Banana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not love its lust...
2007-02-18 06:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by coconuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, i used ot believe in love at first sight but i figured out that it's not real. you think you love the person but you really don't, you are just crushing on them HUGELY, so everything looks perfect to you. if you want to know if your in love or if your just crushing, you gotta wait a few months, when the super exciting feelings go away and you just get used ot that person being there, THAT is love. it may be confusing to you at first. you actually might think you DON"T love that person any more, but in reality its an even stronger love. hmm let's just say love is like a new CD, when you first get it, it is the coolest CD ever but after a while and the more you listen to it, the excitment goes away, but its still a good CD and you would never trade it for the world even though it's not as exciting as it was when you first got it, you would never get rid of it. do you get it? it can be pretty confusing
2007-02-18 06:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by thecoolguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in love at first sight, and anyone does believe in it doesn't know what love is.
Love is something that needs to be aquired over a longer amount of time. I don't even believe in love after a month of being together.
2007-02-18 06:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is a lot, a lot more beneficial than mere appeal. that is a few thing in the eyes, a gentle exhibiting the thanks to the others soul. The trembling feeling in the tummy; the being rooted to the spot for some moments; the blurring of anybody else and the pointy concentration of his/her face. The racing heart-beats; the shortness of breath and the tingling sensation down the backbone. If it ever occurs to you you'll understand.
2016-12-04 08:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy...how can you love someone you know absoultely nothing about?
It's attraction that may grow into love...but it's not love initially...the very idea that such could occur trivializes the concept of love. I wouldn't want to be a person who thought they could lay eyes on someone and instantly love them with their heart. Sounds kinda needy and/or desperate to me.
2007-02-18 06:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened 2 me once. i stayed w/that guy 4 a little over 5 yrs. then we stopped talking, and broke up. it's real for some people, but a fantasy for others.
2007-02-18 06:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by army girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no testimony for you just an opinion. My feeling is you can love what you see at 1st glance. You can likeN it to judging a book by its cover but after you read it (get to know) things can very easily change.
2007-02-18 06:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight does not exist. Anyone who claims to have fallen in love at first sight is lying--they have only fallen in lust. True love should go much, much deeper than that.
2007-02-18 06:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its real. I am getting married to my gf whom I fell in love with immediately. I have never lost that initial spark of attraction and she continually delights me the more I learn about her.
2007-02-18 07:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS REAL~ ME AND ALLAN! 100% REAL! I first saw him, didnt know him at all, i just went up to him and we started hanging out around the fair, Ive been with him since i was 16!!! Im 25 now!
2007-02-18 06:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not real because thats just lust becuase you need to know a person inside and out like their personality to really love them
2007-02-18 06:55:17 · answer #11 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋