What are something I can do with my girlfriend at home?

Question

I am a Christian while my girlfriend is not, and I am trying to keep my word to God by not having any sexual relationship with her tell we are married, and she understands that. we just started going out with each other 2 weeks ago.

She doesn't mind at all just sitting at home and chilling since she really doesn't have money to spend, and I don't mind taking her out on dates, but she likes to pay sometimes. But right now all we do is watch random television shows, go rent movies or eat food. Which is not so bad and we talk sometimes about our future.


But I would like to know if you have any suggestions of games or other activities we can do at home or for free in MD. Thank you in Advance

No I don't live with her but I do go over her house everyday to spend time with her. And yes God would forgive me IF i turn away from my sins(so no I can't really just screw around).

Answer 1

At home: Cooking together is nice, try to learn to cook new exotic foods, you could learn new games (or play old board games or card games)

For free in your area: Check online & in the papers for local events that are going on (many are inexpensive or free), parks, bike riding or hiking, zoos or museums. Check with your local library also, they often have things going on that could range from discussion groups to free classes.

Answer 2

if this is serious and you DO have a future together... set up some time with your pastor for counseling sessions. Both of you having the same belief system is important in a relationship.. it has a trickle-down effect... how are you going to raise your children... are they going to go to church??

Go to the library.. check out the architiecture magazines there.. you don't have to buy them.. but you can get some ideas about what kind of furniture you both like for future referrence, art, etc... this is when you should be picking each other's brains for likes, dislikes, wants, needs... turn the TV off and take advantage of the time.

Answer 3

Why not buy a good cookbook and the two of you learn to cook together. It'll be good practice for both of you even if you and she don't get together in the end.
It's plenty fun besides. Or, you could learn how to bake bread.
Scrapbooking is very popular these days and you could each cut from magazines those things that you love or places you'd like to see and scrap book together. It's another way of getting to know each other's likes and dislikes while keeping your promises.
I congratulate you for your Christian ethics.

Answer 4

There are many things to do but not at your apartment. If your both alone at your apartment the urge of sex is just around the corner. Be careful things can happen very fast and the next thing you know your both half naked and then it's too late. Go outside to putt putt golf, the beach, walk your dog, play frisbee, roller blading, biking, go to the gym, the mall, take her to church.
---> Read 2 Corinthians 6:14

Answer 5

Dude, this might sound lame and all, BUT......



Video games man, try them. When I wasn't religious I had a girl friend and we'd play video games all day.

Then in Islam ,I know not to even have a girlfriend until I marry then we can do things !

Good luck bro !

Answer 6

If you met her two weeks ago, why do you live together? And isn't it considered "living in sin" to live with someone you're dating when you're not married if you're Christian or something? Maybe you can buy a pet or something.

Answer 7

if your gf is muslim, you'll have a chance to go to heaven/hell , as soon as her relatives find out about the two of you..... pls don't make your parents cry.

Answer 8

You must be homo. Wouldn't Jesus forgive you if you shagged her?