I'm 16 and have problems with shyness, i would like to ask a girl out but cant bring myself to ask her, help

Question

i have only had one girlfriend and she had to ask me out. thats how pathetic i am.

Answer 1

Everyone goes through this once in their life. Just do it! Don't be witty or try to be cool. Just simply walk up to her and ask her out. Say you see her after school, walk up and say something like "Hi, have you seen the movie previews of (name a movie) what do you think? Do you think it will be interesting?" Depending on how she reacts, you can then ask her to go hang out.

Answer 2

Ok...
Step 1: Don't ever call yourself pathetic again. If I was there, I'd hit you to make sure to drive this point home. You're as cool as you think you are, so stop thinking that right now.
Step 2: Get a haircut or some new clothes before asking her out. This will help you get out of your old mindset.
Step 3: Don't think, just act. The next time you see her, walk by casually and ask her if she wants to go to a movie.
Step 4: If you need to, make sure to prepare some questions in advance. Girls LOOOOOOOOVE talking about themselves.

Good luck!

Answer 3

The problem is in your own head and you alone can solve it with the right perspective.

Think about this: what is the worse thing that could happen if you asked her out? You might think she would say no or laugh right? So your shyness stems from the fear of rejection.

Actually the worse thing that could happen is that no one asks her out, she feels bad and rejected and then kills herself.

Now you have her death on your hands.

So stop being a baby and ask her out before she dies. And if she laughs or says no, tell yourself "i saved another one"

It is all perspective.

Zen

Answer 4

When I was 16 I had a crush on this girl at school for over a year and never said anything. Then she found a boyfriend and I regretted not saying anything. Trust me, if you don't ask her out, you will regret it. And if she rejects you, it is better to feel embarrassed than to feel regret.

If you're too shy to say anything still, take the easy way out and have a friend say something to her and see what she thinks. She'd respect you more if you came out and asked yourself, but sometimes that's just too tough to do.

Answer 5

i think the 1st question could be: do you're able to learn? some human beings won't be in a position to income all all the way by using analyzing. they desire the stimulation of lecture. possibly attempt to be stated what to do or be shown, even. that is extra in line with your studying type. There could be lots of wonderful human beings on your training which you will ask for help, and there is often the instructor.

Answer 6

Look hun, what's the worst that can happen? She says no? Big deal. It's much worse to not ask her, then look back when you're 40 and wonder "what if...."

And just so you know...the women I know don't find shy guys "pathetic." What we do find pathetic is guys that do nothing but mope around and feel sorry for themselves. Think about that, ok, hun? Good luck. :)

Answer 7

Send her a note. Leave it some place where she will find it. Put it in a book that she has to use in school. If you have a class with her you could put it in then when she is not looking. Leave it like you would with a bookmark so that some of the note is sticking out of the book.
Good Luck!

Answer 8

dude, chill. If u can't ask a girl out, imagine what u will not be able to do in the future.

Answer 9

I'll i can tell you is that if you want something in this life you have to go out and get it. You can do it. I have Faith in you.

Answer 10

Just do it, whats the worst that can happen them saying no.