Why do pretty much all guys just go for looks? There are MORE important things than looks in girls! "Im not going to say looks arent important, but there are other things that are more important!" there could be a nice,talented girl but just because her smile is funny or something, nobody likes her! Can't guys see whats on the inside. . .not the outside!? God made us different for a reason! So why do guys make fun of girls for how they look? And only look on the outside. . .not the inside? please help me out here!
2007-02-18 06:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by Unknown. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree with you, and all to often its the same with guys. society has made much of this problem, everyone has to be thin,good looks etc,etc. if people looked and accepted more of whats on the inside there would be fare less problems in many areas. that's my belief.
2007-02-18 07:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by skip3800 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that if guys had to meet girls in the dark things would work out differently.
In the dark they have to use the other 4 senses.... lol
Unfortunately that doesn't happen for a lot of guys until they get older.. for some... never.
but just remember.. people can change what they look like on the outside.. it just takes a good surgeon and money. But what you are on the inside is what makes you valuable as a person. That can't be altered with surgery or bought. It's what you learn and how you were raised.
You'll meet the guy who recognizes that. and he will walk around all day with a smile on his face, knowing that he has the best of both worlds.... beauty outside that no one has been smart enough to appreciate and beauty inside that no one bothered to find except him.
2007-02-18 15:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by larsgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant really say anything more than the fact that people are very superficial. They choose beauty because they are thinking with their eyes, not their hearts. Dont kill yourself or anything, if this depresses you that much. However, try to not think about this and spend your time bettering yourself as a person. I know its hard, but any guy who chooses to overlook you is really not worth your time. Better yet, as someone who believes in God--- TRUST GOD to allow the Right Man to come to you.
Remember, some of the best things that come to us in life, --come when we least expect them to. Even I struggle with this sometimes.
Love Yourself and Good Luck
2007-02-18 15:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a guy looks are more important then personality. Basicaly, a guy knows he is not going to like the girls personality.....so he at least wants a good looking girl. Girls are all crazy on the inside, and guys knows this....so they will get a crazy personality no matter what they do.
2007-02-18 14:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What are we suppose to do with her personality? Please help us. Most girls' personalities are what turn guys off. You're overly emotional, you wear make up because you're too afraid to face the world as your true selves. You're constantly changing your looks and worrying about being fat, yet you don't want to do anything constructive about it. It's just the way things are. Guys don't make the rules, they're made by god and society. Change either of them or yourself and then try again. Sorry, reality bites sometimes.
2007-02-18 14:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you go out with an incredibly ugly guy with a heart of gold? Would you go everywhere with him and show him off to all your friends? (try 400lbs with acne)
2007-02-18 14:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ballena 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
who are these guys that do this i can assure you i am 19 yearsold and i dont do that hunny ahhah
2007-02-18 14:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋