Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

2007-02-14 02:58:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 02:57:39 · 12 answers · asked by sklincky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why?

2007-02-14 02:57:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been living w my boyfriend for 1 year, we^ve seeing each other for 3 years...hes 32 too and say that he is not ready no get married. i love him very much, but i do want to move on, to have common goals, to raise a family...i dont think he will change his mind any time soon.....should i wait around another year or just take his words and move on, try to find someone with the same objectives in life as me?
i am very scared to go back to my single life at 32....i cant imagine myself going to bars and trying to meet other guys, its so tiring!!!
what should i do???

2007-02-14 02:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by dear 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I let him know how I feel or just keep in to myself like I have this past year and no say anything... its been over 10 years since we were a couple but will still communicate

2007-02-14 02:57:17 · 3 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

she says that she loves me and really likes me and thinks that i am ded cute and sweet.
But we arranged to meet for today and she said she could make it because her mum had to visit her grandad in hospital and she wasnt allowed to leave the house.
I will try and arrange another date with her.
but does she really mean it when she says she likes???

2007-02-14 02:57:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just hate them and i think they hate me

2007-02-14 02:56:43 · 14 answers · asked by DHEDFNDAFSDK@$#@#1874832jnfjkd21 2 in Family

This guys that I have been talking to since New Years are "supposed" to have plans for V-day. We talked about it a few weeks ago, when we decided that we would be each others valentine. We were going to do something small, since its the weekday and do something else on the weekend. Now we are supposed to be going to the movies (that he picked out), but now he acted like he was changing his mind all together and also said that we will talk about it. But TODAY is V-day, right? So, my problem is that now I have a bad feeling about this and that we will not go out at all, nor will I get to see him this weekend. He has b-day parties to go to Fri and Sat......? I want to say something to him but not sure about how to do so, since we have not offically had the "TALK" yet. But all the signs were there that all would be good with us, but as of this morning....I am so not sure. What should I do?

2007-02-14 02:55:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 02:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by kei 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

anyone else in the same boat or am i making you all sick.............!! x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

2007-02-14 02:55:19 · 12 answers · asked by Dolly 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would say, see how the guy treats his mom and sister. That is how he will treat you. If you don't like it, move on. What would you say?

2007-02-14 02:54:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 02:54:51 · 5 answers · asked by sherikafrederick 2 in Friends

wat would do if u had only u and ur nephew in ur life but ur not ready 2 take of it and ur family wont help u wit it at da same time ur having trouble wit ur relationship wat should i do!!!

2007-02-14 02:54:46 · 4 answers · asked by meko@zylonda 1 in Family

2007-02-14 02:54:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get mine from my butt. heee heee.

2007-02-14 02:54:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what they think of this photo,

thanks

2007-02-14 02:53:38 · 13 answers · asked by Charles R 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple of months and i love him and he loves me and he gave me his virginity and that's pretty special so what do i give the perfect guy for valintines day????!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-14 02:53:30 · 5 answers · asked by fairy_punk07 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked a question yesterday about leaving my husband who is a marine and since coming home from overseas, has changed. one answer really hit home for me...maybe he has grown up and i havent. that has been something i never considered because for the first two years of our relationship I supported him. he joined the marines because he didnt want me to support him. now a year and half and a baby girl later, he's working a steady job and i have a job that's only a few hours a week to help out. but now we realize that even though i only work an hour and a half a day, we cant afford daycare even for that short amount of time. not to mention a lot of daycares wont accept my daughter cuz she's too young. now he's asking me to quit and just stay at home, but i know there's no way he could support us completely on his wages alone. someone help please!

2007-02-14 02:53:23 · 8 answers · asked by shaq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 02:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you were together for 5 years
when I met my girlfriend now ex she was 19 and I was 24
first 3 years were great, we clicked like no other, I would make her laugh just by looking at her or touching her.... I could make her laugh so hard that she couldn't stop
I always loved her with all my heart, give her all the respect, kindness, kisses, and all the good stuff...I'm a hopeless romantic and a gentleman to the girls I like, respect and love
after 3 years I went into business of my own which is doing well but it keeps me away from home 7-10 sometimes 14 days at a time
but when I get back I can take as much time off as I desire 1-2 weeks no problem ..its not uncommon for me to be off 3months or more out of a year if you put it together
she works full time and goes to college 4 times a week so its not like she is lonely when I'm gone
if anyone is lonely its me....the time away i spend mostly by my self and I go visit customers but it only 1 person a day for about 30 min
I was so happy with her I didn't even look at other girls
but during the 4th year she started to be distant,not call or return call, always had different plans when i got back home and I didn't think nothing of it because I trusted her and she promised me she would never cheat on me because by doing that she would disrespect her self
besides she had her group of friends and I had mine....that was never an issue...actually we liked it like that
than one night she breaks up with me but comes back the same evening with big tears so I took her back because thats not what I wanted.....after that she promised if there ever is an issue she would come and talk to me
I'm very understanding and easy to compromise with, she promised she would never lie or push me away like that again
one year later same thing started to happen but worse, she would push me physically away when I was trying to snuggle up with her in bed, not call for a week, not call back at all, change plans 3-4 times a day so I finally confronted her and asked if everything is ok because I feel that something is wrong
she says that everything is fine and that she is sorry for pushing me away in bed but she was sleeping.
I asked her few more times during next few weeks and same story all over
than I finally couldn't take it anymore and made her tell me ( over the phone) what is going on
at teat time she asked for two weeks to figure out what she wants......fine I gave here that
two weeks past and I was ready to end this if she couldn't be honest again
so she calls me and her only excuse was that she was 19 when we met and now she is 24 and that I dont like her friends too much....yeah like she just loves my friends...but whatever
just like that its over....she ruined the whole image I had of her and the trust is gone...no wtha tI look back she wsnt that great and wasn't even as pretty as i always though she was.....I guess my pink goggles are of after 5 years
what do you make of this?

2007-02-14 02:51:58 · 35 answers · asked by mr.ask_a_lot 1 in Singles & Dating

many schools have a Valentine's Day program which involves the student council distributing flowers & chocolates form one student to another(that is,if you did pay for it).but is this,really neceassary?

my school does that too,& today there were a lot of misunderstandings & confusions.my crush apparently thought that I had sent him a "Friendship" rose annoymously,whereas i was never a person to do things in a round-abt manner).

a couple of my guy friends played a joke on my best friend,Anjuli-they sent this guy a rose saying that it's from her.he received the rose,& then it was taken away because she denied sending it.(imagine how he would have felt)
only a couple of girls got roses in my whole grade,compared to the guys.(are traditions being reversed?).some people even send flowers to themselves,so that they can brag abt how many they got.(is it a competition?)& of course,there was also a lot of people who didn't get anything.(i wonder how many broken hearts went home today)

2007-02-14 02:51:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-14 02:50:59 · 12 answers · asked by forgotten_lore187 2 in Singles & Dating

I just can't figure out what are hints or not. I knew she liked me a few months back though. Gave her a rose today and she came up, punched my shoulder and said thanks, but i was frozen.

Its elementary and I guess i gotta grow some balls and take a risk, but id like for it to be as smooth as possible? Please help! I'm afraid of rejection and all that mumbo jumbo so anything useful is appreciated.

2007-02-14 02:50:44 · 15 answers · asked by Dabidu 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 02:50:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-14 02:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by bubba 4 in Family

I got married young to my boyfriend when I was 18. Now, I'm 25 and I have two kids (aged 5 and 3) who I adore to pieces - but I caught my husband (who is 4 years older than me) in bed with another woman. I left him and took our children with me to live with my mother. But he keeps ringing me up telling me he's sorry and that he wants me back - but I don't trust him anymore. I want a divorce and I've booked an appointment to see a lawyer but now he's saying he's going to ask for sole custody of the children and saying that I don't deserve the children! I'm so upset and shocked that he would do this, but I don't want him to have sole custody. What can I do?

2007-02-14 02:50:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i found out my mom and my 3 sisters when and seen my sister my mom gave away at birth without me. my family is all the time having get together and not tell me one yeah they had a fathers day dinner and they didnt tell me about it untill the next day this really started after my grandmother died. she is the one that rasied me. i have to call my family and ask about the holidays if i dont they wont tell me anything. i love my family and i love it when we all get together but i feel like they really dont think about me unless they can get something out of me being there. my sister that they went in seen knows nothing about me. should i be hurt or angry for them not calling me to see if i wanted to go meet her. i guess i have just put up this wall that it really dont bother me anymore that my family wants nothing to do with me. but it breaks my heart thay my mom has only seen my little girl a handful of times and she is 8 years old. i dont know what to do or say anymore

2007-02-14 02:50:08 · 4 answers · asked by whiteangel 2 in Family

there is a gril, who is one of my best frineds, she gets everything, she is very pretty really smart and gets a lot oh hott guys...i have always been happy for her though, but latly she has been trying to make me jelouse...what do i do???

2007-02-14 02:49:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

many of us spending hundreds of dollars in valentine days. dont you think that real love is free ? I mean that it isn necessary to spend much money to show yor love.
if you love some one show her or him with yorur passion its not important to buy an expensive present do you agree me?

2007-02-14 02:49:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 02:49:13 · 10 answers · asked by jangjinjang 1 in Other - Family & Relationships