i have been living w my boyfriend for 1 year, we^ve seeing each other for 3 years...hes 32 too and say that he is not ready no get married. i love him very much, but i do want to move on, to have common goals, to raise a family...i dont think he will change his mind any time soon.....should i wait around another year or just take his words and move on, try to find someone with the same objectives in life as me?
i am very scared to go back to my single life at 32....i cant imagine myself going to bars and trying to meet other guys, its so tiring!!!
what should i do???
2007-02-14 02:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by dear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask your friends to hook you up with someone
2007-02-14 03:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw this same thing on Dr. Phil.. i know alot of people do not like him but he had some good input.. He said " why would your man commit to anything when he already has the package deal." Meaning you already live together and act as a married couple why should he get married and go through all the hassle.. and it makes sense. He already has the chicken and the eggs why does he need a basket?? Maybe you should stay together but not live together until he is ready to make that decision??
2007-02-14 03:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and make new friends, thats the best way to meet more people and broaden your dating pool. Try dating sites if your to tired to go out, or just drink a few redbulls and go dancing somewhere.
I highly doubt you will find anyone who will want kids with you within like 2-3 years unless their psycho. The worst move is having kids with someone you end up not falling in love with. And thats all to common already.
2007-02-14 03:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone makes it single. You do not have to go to bars to pick up guys. My sister in law didn't get married until she was 34. She thought she would be single forever. They have a great marriage. Take your time and see where it goes. If he doesn't change or give you an indication he's interested, perhaps it is time to move on.
2007-02-14 03:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is sure of himself then better move on.Dont wait at all.
2007-02-14 03:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u go back u will be second hand......unless u find some one soooooo special.talk to him show to him how happy family will be
2007-02-14 03:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by steviewonders 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel
2007-02-14 03:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Perdido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahalol happy valentines day!!!
2007-02-14 02:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by littlemissflamer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋