Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

im 16. i've had my boyfriend for almost a year and 6 months. my mom wont let me ride with him.. ANYWHERE. he's had his license for almost 6 months. She told me that once i turned 16 i would be allowed to date, but this..has not been the case. She makes up excuses constinatly that.."it's your dad" "im not ready for that yet" "your brother didnt ride with people when he was your age""You might go park" (wth). IM SICK OF IT. my boyfriend is too he said he doesnt know if he wants to spend his highschool life not being able to date. Although he said this he took it back but it makes me wonder how long he'll put up with it. How Can i get my mom to trust him/us enough and to finally let go of her "little girl"?

2007-02-14 14:59:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-14 14:59:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i say something to a girl i like? i am really speechless when i'm near girls, and especially near her.

Please dont give me answers like "just go and do it" because its easier to say than do. Not in my case though ;)

Detailed answer = 10 pts!

2007-02-14 14:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this secretary at work pretty well as she used to date my college roommate. So she shares a lot with me even though we are both married now. We went for a walk during lunch and I told her that she looked good in the skirt she was wearing. She thanked me and said she loved skirt days at work because it was easier to play with herself under her desk. I said for real? And she said yeah, she does it a couple of times during the day when things are quiet. She said she knows of at least two of her friends who do it too. Any women here find time to diddle at work? That is something I did not know.

2007-02-14 14:59:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP...i really like this guy..but how do i say it that i love u

2007-02-14 14:58:45 · 5 answers · asked by K0BE'Z BAY BAY 1 in Singles & Dating

of a year is going to turn 16 soon. And i really want to do something special. What should I do that won't cost alot of money????

2007-02-14 14:58:24 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Kay♥ 1 in Friends

going out, and i dunno wat to say to him. is it ok to say, "can you go to the movies on saturaday wit me?

2007-02-14 14:57:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 14:57:29 · 5 answers · asked by Brian D 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is considering going back with her live-in boyfriend. He verbally and physically abused her. She changed the locks on her home and her kicked her doors in. They have a 1-year-old son together. I think he is wanting to get back together with her because he has no place to go. I am deathly afraid for her and for my grandson. I have told her how I feel; once a man abuses a woman, he will abuse her again and again, etc., etc. She seems to think it is alcohol that makes him act like he does and she doesn't think he has been drinking lately. How do I make her realize she is making a mistake, not only for herself, but for her son.

2007-02-14 14:57:27 · 7 answers · asked by jmpstellab 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-14 14:57:05 · 3 answers · asked by Cool Dude 2 in Singles & Dating

in asociation to "Not reaching out to get that glass of water to help you live, and by doing that you will eventually die cause your not drinking that life saving glass of water thats 5 feet infront of you" well in asociation to that "if i don't ask my boyfriend to have intercourse with me, will we (never do it) or could he possibly leave me etc"?

2007-02-14 14:56:43 · 1 answers · asked by US 4 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 14:56:40 · 11 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

to rent you their basement but your ex still lives at home with them.

If you and him do not really are good friends but still talk to the other and see each other from time to time; but there is still drama and he treats you with confussing behaviours as to get close to then back off; to then be nice but then so indifferent etc...

The intentions on her side are good; there is no doubt about it but is it right to accept it if I still have feelings for him and it will be so hard to see him and be around the place we used to date like his house?

Should I explain to her the real reasons or just kindly say no thank you.

She means well but is like who do they think I am; like what kind of a person they think I am to even consider offering that?.

Well; him and I had issues and because of his attitude even when we talk to each other he can no longer visit my home; but we talk to the other anyhow.

Be kind in your opinions; thanks

2007-02-14 14:55:53 · 5 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Friends

I pay my support regularly, it comes straight out of my check and my ex wont let me see my kids. The child support office wont do anything to her. I dont think its fair that I pay support and do not get to spend time with my kids. I am a good father to them and we always have fun when we are together. The state laws are all against the fathers and there are no written laws to protect us, it costs me more money to take her to court for matters like this and the court systems always feel sorry for her and side with her. We have not been to court on a custody issue since the divorce, but I feel when I go to court on this it will just cost me more money and the state will not do anything to her. She needs to go to jail, just as I would if I didnt pay support, but that will never happen. The laws are written for women, not men.

2007-02-14 14:55:50 · 5 answers · asked by I pay my support 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how to seduce them?

2007-02-14 14:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

Would she say yes or no your opinion?
i know this girl and i like her yea we talk
i make her laugh even if the jokes was not funny she slaps me on the arm she even looks me in the eyes when we talk. I sometimes c her looking at me my friend says he thinks she likes me because everytime she c me she has a smile on her face. I also noticed when i was talking to another friend which is a girl she stood between me and her until i started telling her a story
that happen which they both laughed but she i think tried to out laugh the other girl.
SO ALL I WANNA KNOW IF IT WOULD BE BEST FOR ME TO ASK IF SHE LIKES ME OR SHOULD I SAY I LIKE HER?

2007-02-14 14:54:51 · 4 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 14:54:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help. my 14 year old son will not go to school, i have tried talking to him about any problems he may be having at school but he says there are none. he has no friends because he doesn't go to school to make any. i am seperated from my husband and due to his new girlfriend phoning my kids and telling them things like " their dad is much happier with her and her son " and "how her son and their dad have fun together and get on so well" etc.... she tells them lies along those lines. when myself and my kids have tried telling my husband (their dad) what she is doing because she denies it he thinks we are lying. so due to all this my kids have refused to see their dad for the last 9 months as he has hurt them badly. this has also caused my son to sort of crawl into a shell, he wont go out anywhere he sits in his room when my 16 year old daughter has friends over and as i said he will not go to school. i am very worried about him as before his dad and i separated he was very outgoin

2007-02-14 14:54:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was on msn today, and I wrote something as my quote and I wanna know what you guys think. My ex-boyfriend was also online, he was my first boyfriend and first kiss. We dated for a short time last yea,r he was 25 and I was 20. It never went past kissing cuz he knew I'm saving sex for marriage. NEWAYS, I put as my msn quote: "Oh my, NO I don't think so. I belong to me, I don't belong to you, my heart is my possession, I'll be my own reflection". This quote doesn't really refer to anyone, I just felt like putting up an anti-love quote. Will my ex think that I was dating someone & that the guy hurt me so I dumped him? I know this sounds crazy but I think the 2nd part of the quote is empowering. What is he thinking?

2007-02-14 14:54:31 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

Jake and Lisa are dating. Lisa just recently broke up with her ex Mark, a few days before she started dating Jake. Mark was her first everything. Things were going well between Jake and Lisa. Suddenly Lisa started acting a little funny and was hanging out with her ex Mark a little too much. We thought things were going on. Which actually happend to be true. But Jake really likes Lisa and doesn't want to confront her about the situation. What should Jake do?

2007-02-14 14:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

questions on the computer. Are we a bunch of sorry, loney, losers that do not deserve to make love to anyone on Valentines Day. (Boy, we are a bunch of pathetic, sorry losers.)

2007-02-14 14:53:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?

2007-02-14 14:53:03 · 16 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 14:52:40 · 8 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 14:52:40 · 7 answers · asked by ayoe_maniz 1 in Family

this girl is sending me mixed signals - she asks me to turnabout and then invites me bowling and ice skating and stuff, we im a lot and talk after class every day, and she'll give me the prettiest smiles in the hallway when i see her, yet at the same time there will be days where she makes me feel like i don't exist. do you think she's interested or are we more on a good friends basis? (don't tell me to ask her and find out i'm probably asking her out after Turnabout anyway i just guess i want ur opinion on this topic)

2007-02-14 14:52:38 · 4 answers · asked by stickyfingaz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 14:52:25 · 15 answers · asked by ouch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really really like this guy. We got introduced by my bestfriend. We do talk due to that we're working on something (business) together but he does have a girlfriend already. He only went on like 3 dates with her but they got close because that girl went to another state just to see him when he got in an accident. I believe in finding love and happiness urself. what can I do? I want him......but i don't want to be a *****. please help! Thank you!

2007-02-14 14:52:19 · 1 answers · asked by i love food 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 14:52:00 · 9 answers · asked by rpshi_11001 2 in Family

How do I get guys to like me and be more curious about me without
letting them know I'm trying or being all stupid and flirty?
(will take ANY answers!)

2007-02-14 14:51:40 · 9 answers · asked by paybacksachick 3 in Singles & Dating

I need opinions....because quite honestly I'm confused.

My ex b/f decided to text & call me tonight. Tonight of all nights since of course it's Valentines day. Now, I'm confused because of the following reasons. We were together for ...god I don't even remember...8 years maybe. It's a little hard to keep track of cuz we were long distance for 90% of the time. Now, the last time I went and saw him he decided to call less than a month after me being back home saying he'd found someone else he had more in common with. Alright, I can handle that....ended that situation....told him to never text and call again. He had worse mood swings than any female & completely played mind games so I cut communication b/c quite honestly I wanted to move with my life without him being in my head anymore since obviously he didn't want to be in my life anymore. Now tonight he texts me saying he "misses my voice, but knows that doesn't matter at this point."

Then whats the point?! Any ideas??

2007-02-14 14:51:28 · 2 answers · asked by gdesigner 2 in Singles & Dating