i just dont know, how do i say it to her??

Question

how do i say something to a girl i like? i am really speechless when i'm near girls, and especially near her.

Please dont give me answers like "just go and do it" because its easier to say than do. Not in my case though ;)

Detailed answer = 10 pts!

i cant send her an email becasue i'm too shy to ask, if i had the courage to ask her email i would just ask her out

Answer 1

Of course telling someone how you feel is not going to be easy, I'm shy and have never been able to do it. Its just not be, I've always waited for the guy to approach me and ask me or tell me how he felt then I felt more comfortable about opening up. I think that not being able to approach someone and tell them how you feel is more fear of rejection than shyness. I mean as long as you have fear of rejection you will never be able to tell anyone even the girl you like how you feel. So once you get over that and realize that you have nothing to loose by letting this young lady know how you feel you will be able to approach anyone or any girl and speak your mind. I went through the same thing and even after marriage wasn't able to express myself fully, then I realized I have nothing to loose why not just open up and let this man know all my feelings and I have ever since I let go of fear of rejection and looking silly. I hope that you are able to approach this young lady, good luck

Answer 2

Making someone laugh always breaks the ice, the girl will feel comfortable and youll feel confident. You could start with a joke or a random funny thought or even sarcasm. I love when a guy makes me laugh, to me, there is nothing sexier.
The bottom line is, dont try so hard. That can either turn her off or let her know YOU are vulnerable and then she will take advantage of that (i.e. having you buy her things and making you look like an @$$)

Answer 3

dont be too pushy or too detailed when you decide to tell her cuz you may sound desperate. maybe just hanging out with her more and saying 'youre a cool girl its fun spending time with you' or something like 'youre a good person ive really gotten close to you and i dont expect anything back but just thought i would let you know that im starting to like you'. its kinda hard cuz if a girl has no clue then she will be caught off guard and maybe not know what to say so make sure that you are flirting with her a little before she says it so she has some what of an idea

Answer 4

Well get the courage to walk up to her and say hi (eye contact is vital) then start to introduce yourself and maybe start a conversation (girls like to talk so try asking questions listening will impress her). When you have finished your conversation ask her if shes not busy later maybe you can go out for coffee or lunch maybe even dinner. Then just go on from there remembering just to act yourself. im sure youll be going out together in no time.
wish you the best and hope i helped
xoxoMoeisha

Answer 5

I am having the same problem too, but i think the thing that you should do is, try to get as close to her as possible. If you're in her class and you guy are doing a project, try to be her partner so you can be close to her and talk about the thing that you like or dislike to find out if she have the same thing as yours, also try to find out when were she born. The other thing is to try and ask her what she like the most, and if you can buy her that thing and give it to her as a Valentine gift, or just simply a birthday present. i hope that help!!!!

Answer 6

now what would you like to say to this wonder girl? how about a hello first? you don't have to look straight at her, but make the tone audible. smile when you do. that will break the ice. the next time ask her how shes doing. this way she has to say something to you. take it one step at a time. if she likes you she will talk. lol not many girls don't talk though. good luck.

Answer 7

if u dont want to actually talk to her buy a rose and on the card write down what u want to say. that way u dont have to stand there wearing ur heart on ur sleave, stuttering. not that u stutter but u no what i mean. sometimes writing ur feelings is a lot easier then saying them. good luck and i hope this helps. if she likes flowers then she will be thrilled.

Answer 8

Well, It all depends what you really want to say to her. Just go to where she is and say " Hi, _______ , you look nice today. would you like to go out with me sometime." if she says yes then make sure that you are prepared with a date and time. don't panic. just say to her " Good , I'll pick you up ______, @ ______ is that good for you. if it is not let her pick the time and day. If she isn't interested in you don't fret it. take it like a man and just say OK. if you change your mind you know where to find me...

Answer 9

Be old fashioned, write in a letter and hand it to her. Or, send her an e-mail! It's a bit impersonal, but gets the job done. :)

Answer 10

Be sure to answer her emails and letters back.