Family & Relationships - 14 February 2007

A month ago my husband's 21 year old (male) cousin died in a wreck. Ever since the funeral, my husband has been over at his cousin's parents' home, "comforting" his cousin's "little" sister who is nearly 17. My husband is 31 and every evening he comes home from work, takes a shower then says he's off to their house, he says she needs him again. The funny thing is (other than the fact that me and my boys need him home too) that he never had much to do with his cousin or the cousin's younger sister until this accident happened. They basically saw each other once a year at a birthday party. Now all of a sudden he is her savior and rescuer when she is over there crying? He goes over there around 6:30pm and doesn't come home until midnight or after sometimes. How much comforting could she need? He insists that her parents are in the livingroom and that he is either sitting on her bed holding her while she cries, or in the kitchen talking to her parents.

2007-02-14 15:29:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-14 15:28:53 · 9 answers · asked by terracotta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy at school that I've known since last year. Well this year, at the beginning of the school year, he was acting pretty indifferent towards me and flirting with other girls around me. Now, lately, he's been going out of his way to talk to me or tease me. He gave me his phone # on myspace and at a recent dance he very nervously asked me to dance with him, kept coming around me and my friend, and kept staring at me (even when he would dance with other girls.) he even told me his friends thought he was trying to "spit game" at me during the dance, and they kept watching my friend and I when he wasn't around. We text message on the phone alot now, but ever since the dance; it's like everything he talks about is about sex; and it's usually very blatant. Even if I'm not joking around with him about stuff like that he talks about it. He knows I'm not the type of girl to do any of the things he talks about us doing, so why does he keep doing it? Does he like me or not?

2007-02-14 15:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by Just my luck..... 1 in Singles & Dating

why do guys cheat? and be as honest as you can please.....

2007-02-14 15:28:43 · 9 answers · asked by GUESS 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, everyone gets the person they like, everyone has someone to love. Except me. I currently like someone. Who I never actually spoken to. He seems to like me. There is eye contact, he even smiled at me once. We also have a lot in common. I see way to many people get the one's they want, but not me. How can I talk to him? How can I make this work?

2007-02-14 15:28:05 · 9 answers · asked by Real 4 in Singles & Dating

What did you do with your valentine???

What did you get for your valentine???

2007-02-14 15:27:08 · 16 answers · asked by Dance♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 15:26:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u know if a guy likes u??

2007-02-14 15:25:58 · 12 answers · asked by cmpk26 1 in Singles & Dating

im realy lonely and jelouse of all my friends that is happy with there bf..is there something rong with my actions???? guys seem to act like my "big brother" and they dont like me in that way?? how do i change thaT?

2007-02-14 15:25:53 · 5 answers · asked by wpm203 2 in Singles & Dating

So I like this girl and I haven't told her yet and I bought her a bear for Valentines day and asked my friend to give it to her since he rides her bus and I don't. Hoe do I know if she likes me back or how do I get her to like me?

2007-02-14 15:23:58 · 1 answers · asked by DEE 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel so good, I feel like I'm above the world. I feel so scared that he will go away and so happy that he's with me now.

2007-02-14 15:23:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you knew now what you did then what would you have done differently...?

2007-02-14 15:21:42 · 16 answers · asked by I love you 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 20 yr old boy and my Gf is 21. she is sexy but the problem is she is ugly.however she loves me a lot and we have a gud chemistry everything is going well. the problem is since she is not gud lukin i am not sure my parents would accept her as i am a bengali and there are very gud looking girls in my own community. i had suggested few people and they said that its not gud to heart your parents emotions and expectations and some have told me not to worry once ur parents understand how much she loves you and she would be a gud daughter in law they would compromise and accept her..!! Please give your inputs and suggestions for the same.

2007-02-14 15:21:02 · 12 answers · asked by Its Me 1 in Singles & Dating

i told him hes making my valentines day bad because when hes high he doesnt pay attention to me, he didnt even say sorry he just said mann whatever...i hate it im so mad what can i do?

2007-02-14 15:19:45 · 14 answers · asked by Amor 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What goes through your mind when you frequently make eye contact with a girl?

P.S. We have never spoken. to each other ..just eye contact.

I know I asked this already but I need more opinions.. thanks.

2007-02-14 15:19:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and from what movie?

2007-02-14 15:19:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any ideas of where to purchase decent ones?

2007-02-14 15:18:40 · 4 answers · asked by teejaygee81 1 in Weddings

drinking milk from my breasts when we have a baby..i mean it is ok sometimes...but he is just obsessed with it...how do i tell him to stop fantasising about it?anything wrong with him?

2007-02-14 15:18:00 · 8 answers · asked by Hummingbird 1 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE NEED SANE ADVICE!
I've been married 3 times, 18 ,& 21 both ended within a year both went open almost immediately & well as they say it all down hill from there.
Meet an married a wonderful man who made me feel good about myself as a woman and really have been happy and solid marriage for 12 years as of 1/1/2007 . Now heres where the stupidity comes to play I suggested we try and swing for a year before we have kids & enjoy life for a time. He said no after allot of convincing & arm twisting he agreed to go to a party.
Well we was hit on almost immediately, Husband got violent and beat up 3 men & took me ( he's not violent person) home, next morning told me he was getting divorced! Went to marriage counselor in alternative life style, & she side he said NO & I should have dropped it & only 1out of 6 couples get anything from swinging & have lead to 2 divorces out of 8 !
Well I want my husband & marriage to work he really share his life with me! I wont cheat & want him only Him ..

2007-02-14 15:17:17 · 11 answers · asked by T S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together 3 yrs, we have a good relationship we know we are going to be together we've even talked about having a baby what is his hang up, He is the one!

2007-02-14 15:15:52 · 14 answers · asked by BLUE EYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Look. I really like this boy like ALOT! I wanna be with him but he told my friends that he wouldnt go out with me because of my teeth and "shape" even though im in really good shape. But i adore his personality and he has alot of friends but i think he likes this other girl. I used to like him for 4 months then i stopped now im starting again. I cant help myself. What should I do!!

2007-02-14 15:15:25 · 7 answers · asked by julia 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so this guy told me he liked me like 2 years ago. i told him i just wanted to be friends. he's really hott (i know thats shallow of me) and pretty nice. but i find him kinda boring. (i feel i should say srry here bc he likes me and i find him boring....) anyway. we've kept in touch. gone out with other friends to movies and parties. and sometimes when he IMs me on yahoo, im busy most of the time so i cant talk. but he still tries to talk to me. today he just said happy valentines day as we were IMing each other and i usually dont make a big deal out of valentines day so i was just really nonchalant about it. but that got me thinking....does he still like me. hes like 3 years older than me but we are pretty good friends. he hasnt had any other girlfriends that i kno about but idk...what do u think.? maybe im overthinking this.

2007-02-14 15:14:40 · 8 answers · asked by <3pirate 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about 15 good looking,sweet,charming,funny,thoughtful romantic and intelligent guys here.I don't know why I do this but I really need to stop or I'm going to end up alone.I just don't seem to be able to bring myself to show them any appreciation and treat them with disrespect.Like I constantly screw-up by purposely making them jealous or doing something hurtfuIl and then going back and apoloizing.'m a 19yr old girl and need this to stop before I go to far.Please help!

2007-02-14 15:13:35 · 9 answers · asked by solostwithoutyou 1 in Singles & Dating

25 years of marriage, 5 kids. And today I got my first Valentines Day gift. LOL I guess I dropped enough hints last week to have the best V-day ever!. I got flowers and candy and cards and lots of other neat gifts.

Are you happy for me?

2007-02-14 15:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by answers999 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this girl but I don’t know if she likes me as a friend or more then a friend. How you can tell if someone likes you secretly?

2007-02-14 15:12:42 · 6 answers · asked by Lawerence S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and this guy had gone out on 5 what i say dates, and we talk about everything and anything at all...ive really fallen for him. the other night thought he stated that this next outing we were going on he kinda mentioned it was a date but didn't...then he asked about this pic of a girl he saw that i knew and said he would like to meet her and i hate this girl she was such a jerk gf to my best friend..so i was totally crushed obviously thinking he didn't like me..I told him what i felt about her and he backed off really fast. well the next day when we went out..he opened the door, paid for me..for the first time ever called it a date let me wear his sweatshirt and it was a perfect evening and for the first time he hugged me goodbye. He isn't the player type he is the shy guy that takes his time and likes everyone, I really like him but the whole thing of him asking me about another girl throws me..was the other girl just a test for me? Does he like me?

2007-02-14 15:12:37 · 5 answers · asked by whatdoesitmatter05 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been talkin 2 this guy 4 like 3 months he is a really cool person his personality is the greatest we have so much in common I found myself catching feelings 4 him...BUT...he is not at all my type as far as looks first of all I have a problem with dating darkskin guys I never have and I told myself I never will I just think it doesn't go well together secondly he's not attractive he's just alright but barely...but he's such a nice guy I just don't know wat 2 do.

2007-02-14 15:12:27 · 3 answers · asked by GODSGIFT 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a guy have a crush on the same girl twice-- after losing interest a first time?

There's this guy who use to like me. I didn't find out that he liked me until after he's stopped liking me. I had no idea that he liked me so I didn't return any signs of interest.

The thing is that now I've kinda fallen for him (I have a tendency to develope crushes on guys who like me first).

What should I do?

Can a guy like an "ex-crush"?

2007-02-14 15:12:19 · 2 answers · asked by Friend 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-14 15:12:03 · 14 answers · asked by unlucky in love 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy in college.We have been talking online and in person ever since the first week.The first night we ever talked, he asked me out.I turned him down saying that I didn't even know who he was, which was true.He has since asked me out 2wice.Both times w/ rejections b/c I was not sure I wanted to be in a relationship.Since then, we have both been w/ other people, but have been drawn back to each other.He's got long stringy black hair, tattoos, & a tounge ring.he drinks/smokes.Hes very shy, but is comfortable w/ me. We recently got into a fight. We didn't talk 4 2 weeks, & then made up. 3 nights ago, he told me that he missed "us" & that he likes to think about times we had. I can also always tell that he is very jealous of every guy that talks to me. 2night he said he was going to ask a girl out & i said good for him & then said i was also going to be w/ another guy 2night 2. he got mad & said "F you then F you"What does this mean?Did he have a diff. girl or does he want me?

2007-02-14 15:11:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating