i told him hes making my valentines day bad because when hes high he doesnt pay attention to me, he didnt even say sorry he just said mann whatever...i hate it im so mad what can i do?
2007-02-14 15:19:45 · 14 answers · asked by Amor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get rid of him and find someone who isn't on drugs. If you accept your man being on drugs you have to live with the reactions it cause on him and the relationship. You have to choose whether you can live like that or if you want better for yourself.
2007-02-14 15:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Missy M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the kind of life that you wish is this one continue with him; people do not change until they really want to do it themselves.
Loving a person is not enough and if he does that now and you continue this way whenever you have family he will not be there for you so even on Valentine's maybe the best present you can give today to yourself is to stop this relationship and move on to a better life and people around you.
As hard as it is unless you wish to live your life in missery which I doubt.
2007-02-14 23:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Pandora 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Go to a party somewhere or a club. Leave his fanny setting where he is. He prolly wouldnt notice anyway.
I lived with a drunk for a year, its a hard life. I suggest u get out and let him have what is most important to him, which is his dope.
U can do better.
U deserve better actually. Its a waste of time trying to get them to see your side.
Good luck to u.
2007-02-14 23:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously showing you that his priorities lie in smoking pot and getting high. He'd rather get high than do something for you. Remember, a persons actions always speak louder than there words.
2007-02-14 23:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! since hes always getting high and never givs you the love and attention you need.
2007-02-14 23:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go have a Valentines date with some girlfriends, and let him sit home alone.
2007-02-14 23:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by impactonland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. u cant reason with someone under the influence of drugs and you are soooo much better than that. U just need to see it yourself.
2007-02-14 23:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by luv_hun_nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you even have to ASK this question is pathetic.
2007-02-15 00:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by Ken 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is your choice to be in a relationship with him.
Put up, shut up or get out !
It's up to you, you already know what he is and what your future with him would be like.
2007-02-14 23:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Smart Nurse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you can't beat em join him, get high and knock you brains out.
2007-02-14 23:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋