i am 20 yr old boy and my Gf is 21. she is sexy but the problem is she is ugly.however she loves me a lot and we have a gud chemistry everything is going well. the problem is since she is not gud lukin i am not sure my parents would accept her as i am a bengali and there are very gud looking girls in my own community. i had suggested few people and they said that its not gud to heart your parents emotions and expectations and some have told me not to worry once ur parents understand how much she loves you and she would be a gud daughter in law they would compromise and accept her..!! Please give your inputs and suggestions for the same.
2007-02-14 15:21:02 · 12 answers · asked by Its Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I may not be indian but I know looks fade as we age no matter how many dr. you go to it's alote harder to find someone that you click w/ than someone that looks pretty but has a bad attitude!!Your parents should want you to be truly happy & if not, it's still your life & if you live it for everyone else you'll never ever be happy!!Also you can get her a make over at a salon or better yet beauty schools do it for cheap, but don't be like "it's cause you ugly baby". Make it like a gift, for her pleasure!! If she's already sexy maybe she just needs to know some make-up tricks!!Be you with who you WANT to be with or be miserable.IT'S YOUR CHOICE,YOUR LIFE THEY DON'T HAVE TO LIVE WITH HER!!! I have laid next to the most beautiful people in the world (models,no joke)& felt completely alone.My best friend was no model at all,in fact people told me "he looks scary"& people have told him "how'd an ugly f@cker like you get her?"We have been married now for 6 yrs&have 2 beautiful daughters & have been together for15yrs & as I layed next to him today I've never felt more loved or complete.
2007-02-14 15:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr Bengali,you did not mension if she is desi.if she is not
ind your parents wud certainly not accept both bcose of cast and look.U 2 R not matured enough 4 this life long
question.Parents have some expections from children.She loves you but how about you?Do you really
love her by heart.If so both of you should be prepared to
face the anti situation and adjust your selves.This matter
you should very clearly inform her.She should have long patience.She may not be well treated in your home too.
And yet she should behave with love.If she can she
may not have any problem later.Good luck.
2007-02-14 16:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First who are u to judge if a person is ugly or not? If u love her, u won't even bother abt her looks...inner beauty is most important, u might get a super model bt she might treat u like crap...and u might think she is ugly, but she might a model to someone else. Most important, is u and not ur parents...decision shld be made by u and supported by ur parents...ur the one living with her and not ur parents in the future...but since the way u think and ur parents think alike...can't help u there.
2007-02-14 15:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by DooGie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey being sexy and ugly at the same time dont match...and its not very good of you to be talking like that about your gf too...give he some respect..if your parents feelings are so important to you..then why not your gf's feelings too..afterall she is thew one who is going to stay with you for life not your parents.
2007-02-14 15:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Hummingbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how can she be sexy and ugly at the same time ??
Second tdo you actually love her or you just with her cause you don't wanna be alone ?? Sounds to me you don't love her you are just with her.
If you don;t love her let her go !!! And really who cares what your parents think about your gf .. if you love her it shouldn't matter what they think right ??
2007-02-14 15:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
20 year old boy? There's your main problem. I was taught that at age 18, you become a MAN. When you're a MAN, you don't need Mommy and Daddy's permission to date.
2007-02-14 15:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In usa, you're able to have woman acquaintances yet no longer girlfriends once you're married. All sexual intercourse could be with your spouse in easy terms. All dating could be with your spouse in easy terms
2016-09-29 03:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 20 ,unschooled in English and idiotic.
Is your girlfriend uglier than your mother?
2007-02-14 15:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by 2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If looks are an issue for you, then you probably need to move on..
If you really loved her, then how she looks would be of little concern.
2007-02-14 15:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by m34tba11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents would eventually accept the fact that you love her and they'll accept her.
2007-02-14 15:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by Friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋