ok so this guy told me he liked me like 2 years ago. i told him i just wanted to be friends. he's really hott (i know thats shallow of me) and pretty nice. but i find him kinda boring. (i feel i should say srry here bc he likes me and i find him boring....) anyway. we've kept in touch. gone out with other friends to movies and parties. and sometimes when he IMs me on yahoo, im busy most of the time so i cant talk. but he still tries to talk to me. today he just said happy valentines day as we were IMing each other and i usually dont make a big deal out of valentines day so i was just really nonchalant about it. but that got me thinking....does he still like me. hes like 3 years older than me but we are pretty good friends. he hasnt had any other girlfriends that i kno about but idk...what do u think.? maybe im overthinking this.
2007-02-14 15:14:40 · 8 answers · asked by <3pirate 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok ozzy. by boring i meant like- idk want to say that he doesnt have a personality bc he does. and he is funny occasionally but i just look at him as a friend hes one of those guys who talk about sports a lot (which is okay but this guy is hardcore) and im one of those girls who when guys talk about sports crack jokes about how i dont care. we have fun talking about stuff but the "stuff" is rare.
2007-02-14 15:29:57 · update #1
If he's still talking to you, he still likes you. But he might not "like you, like you. He could just consider you a friend. Ask him. But if you still find him boring, what's the point? Does it really matter to you if he likes you?
I mean why get his hopes up if you're going to end up hurting him in the end? Let him move on and find someone who will appreciate him.
2007-02-14 15:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to think about things like that over the holidays. More than likely though he was probably just saying happy valentine's day.
2007-02-14 23:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sonja J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. He could just be a cool friend a nonchalant. I have a friend EXACTLY like that, several really. Good luck. oooo wait, try this: kss him on the cheek and see what happens far as his reaction goes.
2007-02-14 23:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by luv_hun_nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? are you now confused with your relationship to him. you sure is. talk to him and let him know how you feel there's a sudden changed as time passes by. your key now is your HONESTY - at least you have something to say to him that both of you are friends for 2 years and does know alot with each other and continuous communication with him helped you to like him. REMINISCE things what both of you have. you are now attracted to him.. yihee.. good luck! happy valentines to both of you!
2007-02-14 23:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by leoNpari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a nice guy...and sadly, girls usually only like bad
boys.
2007-02-14 23:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah maybe since you find this really hot guy boring
or is it you that is boring? hmmm.. makes you think
huh!!! I would give it a try and see he may not be
as boring as you...
2007-02-14 23:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by bananasplit1744 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't you ask him out on a date and find out?
2007-02-14 23:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm maybe he could if he keeps buggin...
2007-02-14 23:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by cristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋