There's this guy at school that I've known since last year. Well this year, at the beginning of the school year, he was acting pretty indifferent towards me and flirting with other girls around me. Now, lately, he's been going out of his way to talk to me or tease me. He gave me his phone # on myspace and at a recent dance he very nervously asked me to dance with him, kept coming around me and my friend, and kept staring at me (even when he would dance with other girls.) he even told me his friends thought he was trying to "spit game" at me during the dance, and they kept watching my friend and I when he wasn't around. We text message on the phone alot now, but ever since the dance; it's like everything he talks about is about sex; and it's usually very blatant. Even if I'm not joking around with him about stuff like that he talks about it. He knows I'm not the type of girl to do any of the things he talks about us doing, so why does he keep doing it? Does he like me or not?
2007-02-14 15:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by Just my luck..... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you...but doesn't know how to talk to you. If you want to get to know him better tell him how turned off you are with his incessant chatter about sex. Really, it sounds like he needs to grow up a little. But this is a phase with a lot of guys. You might be able to guide him out of it but stay in control of the situation.
Good luck.
2007-02-18 08:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by mcpouches 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely playin he knows you like him so now he figures he's goin to take advantage of that...little does he know with all the sex talk he's makin it obvious hun open your eyes he's playin with you don't fall for it when you can do better..if you do make that mistake by the image I pictured he seems like the type to kiss and tell..dont do it...if you still want to talk to him just reverse the roles beat him at his own game so he's knows "she's a smart one"
2007-02-14 23:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by GODSGIFT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think so. he sounds like he will persue you only if he can get a little action. if you cant talk about anything but sex then its time to move on. you dont need some horny guy sending perverted msgs and then he will show all his friends and tell them how easy you are. get out while your nose is still clean
2007-02-14 23:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at that age, most of it is just play and learn the game, practice for the real relationships later on. yes he likes you, along with several other girls. he's horny.
2007-02-14 23:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by wassupmang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...don't waste your time with him. Find another better one.
2007-02-14 23:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋