well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?
2007-02-14 14:53:03 · 16 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were you friends before you asked her out? If so, than ask her what's up, why she's being shy.. and if not, ask her what's up anyway.
2007-02-14 14:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by total k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asking her out changed some thing in your dynamic. Weather you were really good friends or just casual acquaintances prior to you asking her out doesn't matter. Its changed. She said no, so you really shouldn't push the issue any longer. But what you should do is pull her to the side and say in your own words that you hope you can both go back to being "normal" again whatever that was prior to you asking her out weather it be BFF's or just buddies whatever it was let her know that you want to go back to that. and show her you've moved on. Get busy doing something, moving on doesn’t always mean moving on to a new girl it just means getting on with your life. Get involved in school, or in some sort of group. If she's into you she'll let you know. Until than get busy living!
2007-02-14 23:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by SDGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had her friends tell you "no" because she didnt want to see you get hurt. That means she must care about you a little bit. Maybe shes going with the popular vote peer pressure sometimes plays a big role. I think you should tell her you understand she dosent want to date right now. Show her you respect her decision. In the long run she will realise that you are the better man for that. Just give her a little space and let her come to you. Absence makes a heart grow fonder. Dont rush it.
2007-02-14 23:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.i can tell you right now that it is hard for a girl to show affection to someone.we hide our feelings or we say no and then later on regret it.she may like you but she probably wants you to make the first move.i know how hard it is to pluck up the courage and ask a grl out.because even us girls are scared of being rejected.u r not alone.what would life be if we didnt take a chance at some stage in our lives?borin,that is what.im 16yrs old,so im young enough to know these things,plus with being a girl.it is just natural to know these things.because i have been in similar situations.
2007-02-14 23:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by joanne b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam 30 year old woman. i can tell you that yes she likes you. i think she acted out of shyness or nervousness. sounds like she hadn't been asked out by a crush. she likes you, maybe she wants u to ask again, because she is giving u those hints clearly. get her alone or catch her alone and ask her if u can talk to her in private, make sure noone is interuppting. then just talk to her and ask her to go bowling or have ice cream at the mall-just talk to her alone, then u will know what's up. if she says no tell her u will leave her alone even if u like her alot, then next time if she changes her mind she can do all the work. good luck, remember just talk to her with no one putting in their two cents.
2007-02-14 22:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO she may be thinking that she lost you and now she kinda wants to get your attention again. Also she may feel sorry she hurt you and be trying to send some sort of message that she cares for you in some sense.
Anyway, you'll know what to do, but I don't see a big LIKE thing here.
2007-02-14 23:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite (don't ask) her out on a really interesting date or to a great party. And, lose tthe shy nonsense, talk to 10 new girls in the next week.
2007-02-14 22:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck we are wierd sometimes we are not interested but want for the guy to still be interested on us but the best thing for you to do is to ask her straight out that's how you'll know or else she'll be playing games with you just to keep you interested but she'll move on trust me i used to be like that we just want attention
or maybe she is shy but why would she say no to you when you asked her out that would have been her chance to go out with you
2007-02-14 23:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by GIGGLES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is uncomfortable now that u asked her. or maybe ur avoiding her bc ur uncomfortable that she said no so shes trying to get ur attention bc she still wants to be friends. i dont really know why she would say no unless she realized that she liked you after she said no.
2007-02-14 22:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by <3pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh this is easy! dude she likes you. just ask her urself does she like u cause u dont know if her friends were lieing..if she looks at u and turns away when you look that means she is tryin to get ur attention....she likes u and u kno it..justask her urself!! hope this helped!!!!!!
2007-02-14 22:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by Denise12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋