to rent you their basement but your ex still lives at home with them.
If you and him do not really are good friends but still talk to the other and see each other from time to time; but there is still drama and he treats you with confussing behaviours as to get close to then back off; to then be nice but then so indifferent etc...
The intentions on her side are good; there is no doubt about it but is it right to accept it if I still have feelings for him and it will be so hard to see him and be around the place we used to date like his house?
Should I explain to her the real reasons or just kindly say no thank you.
She means well but is like who do they think I am; like what kind of a person they think I am to even consider offering that?.
Well; him and I had issues and because of his attitude even when we talk to each other he can no longer visit my home; but we talk to the other anyhow.
Be kind in your opinions; thanks
2007-02-14 14:55:53 · 5 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be honest with her about your answer, no one can blame you for your honesty but also make sure you thank her for the offer as well.
2007-02-14 15:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I am someone who has always had emotional 'issues' with my ex. I still talk to his mother, but if she offered me a place in their basement I'd probably only accept as a very, very, very last resort because ex-boyfriend issues are the worst kind to plague you. (It has been three years since our break-up but there's always that unresolved air when we're around each other.) Plus how would you/he feel if you/him brought your dates home with you? It'd be really awkward.
2007-02-14 23:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and just don't do it. No need to explain a simply no thank you should do just fine. You need to find another place to live in order to live your life to the fullest.
2007-02-14 23:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like an uneasy situation, I don't think it would be comfortable for any of you. I would courteously decline.
2007-02-14 23:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by stepmom3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it's too soon to be around them.
2007-02-14 22:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋