Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

Thanks again for everyones comments apart from a mrjerk15 who has a very apt name for himself the sad loser stop trying to run your sisters life and get one of your own hahahaa lol! In response to most comments you are right i should tell her the truth but why ruin something now when it could be good in the future i suppose time will tell. Cheers everyone much appreciated!

2007-02-13 01:02:08 · 14 answers · asked by whatever001 1 in Singles & Dating

I am an addict in recovery with 19 months clean time. My ex-husband divorced me and got sole custody of my daughter three years ago while I was in jail for drug related offenses. (She will be 9 yrs old in March 2007) He has blocked every attempt at contact. Recently, the court has ordered visitation. I the first visitation was supervised by my daughter's court appointed Guardian Ad Litem, and after a few minutes of hesitancy, it was like we had never been apart. The second time was unsupervised at my elder daughter's house. When he dropped her off, she acted scared to be left with me until he left. Then she was affectionate, loving, and we had a great time together. She was also extremely happy to see her siblings, whom he has cut her off from also. When it was time for him to pick her up, she again acted fearful of us, and refused to take with her the gifts we had given her. Now he has filed with the court to move to Arizona. Just getting visitation has already drained me financially.

2007-02-13 01:01:56 · 11 answers · asked by stephanie l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if he doesnt send me a valentines card/message, does that mean that he isnt interested in me?

when i was my ex, he would always ask me what i had for valentines day. i ended my relationship a few months back. he knows this.

2007-02-13 01:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex have been broken up for a few years and I still send her gifts on holidays and sometimes just out of the blue for no reason at all. She seems grateful to be receiving the gift. She is currently married so I send them to her work. She made the mistake of taking some flowers I sent her home because she though they were from her husband. He wasn’t so happy and tried to find out who they where from by calling the flower company but they wouldn’t tell him. She clamed not to know who they where from either. Is this wrong? Catch 22 it was a same-sex relationship!!

2007-02-13 01:01:19 · 16 answers · asked by knowing is have the battle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Lets face it were not all fortunate enough to have partners(some of us prefer not to have one) but how will you spend your Valentines day tomorrow???

http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/cupidslittlearrow/

Let me know your thoughts

2007-02-13 01:00:58 · 15 answers · asked by Karl B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 01:00:47 · 9 answers · asked by tradjazziscool 2 in Friends

My mother and me seemed to be very close until I turned 16 and she married a new man, who despised me and made up lies about me. When I was 18, I graduated HS and her mom got sick. So I moved in with my granny (we have been close my whole life) to help take care of her (she lost her arm and was put on a vent) and papa helped me get into college. Since then, 4 1/2 years, my mother has not called me ONCE. -not even on my birthday- She didn't even come to my college graduation, just because it was a long drive or something. (But I drove it numerous times to help take care of my siblings.) I don't do drugs, I drink maybe 1 margarita a month, and I am now a certified teacher in the state of Texas. I have done something good with my life, I have good friends and I have a good heart. So, why does she hate me? Why won't she call me? And then to top it all off she just told my grandmother last night that she doesn't regret it and that I have nothing to give her. ....so....why?

2007-02-13 00:59:49 · 32 answers · asked by txteachergal 2 in Family

Hi,

I am wanting to propose to my girlfriend and am wondering the best place in the world to shop for a diamond engagement ring. I want to buy her a 1 carat platinum ring (good quality).

Where are the cheaper places to shop for such an item?????

2007-02-13 00:57:39 · 16 answers · asked by Naga 1 in Weddings

While she allows strangers to enter her home?

2007-02-13 00:56:18 · 4 answers · asked by Ear 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married and the house we live in is in my fathers names, and of course hes on my side, the land our house is on is rented, in my hubbys name, and the rest of the bill are in mine and his,We live in Texas, can I legally have him removed from our home, he has a bad drug problem he has to go? any help would be greatly and deeply appreciated.We also have 5 kids together which is why he has to go.

2007-02-13 00:54:59 · 19 answers · asked by blue s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Will there come a day when my fiances feels comfortable enough to communicate with me instead of every other female in the world?

2007-02-13 00:54:33 · 7 answers · asked by Katie N 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy is crazy bout me but i just like him nnormaly, just a bit more than a friend sometimes. and everyone expects me to be with him coz he's quite a catch or whatever, and everyone knows about it since he told everyone. my family, his family, extended families, colleagues, school friends, friends of friends, etc. my brother really hates him (like really really! they used to be friends but fell out) and my mom loves him to bits, more than i do at all. my sister used to have a thing for him, and so did one of my friends. even my granma loves him. but i dont know. please help!!!

2007-02-13 00:53:52 · 9 answers · asked by mynaamynmuil 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl but I dont know if she likes me more than a friend, She told me that I make her smile, and I told her how I feel about her but she still hasnt said weather she likes me or not.

2007-02-13 00:53:13 · 1 answers · asked by Chaos_angel0 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 00:52:11 · 12 answers · asked by italianbabs 1 in Family

A girl i know recently left her bf of two years to be with me but could not seem to let go of him completely and as a result said it would be best if we were still friends and i think i am in love with this girl but i have no idea whether i should back off or kepp pursuing her i really do miss her and she says she still likes me but she doesnt no what she wants
plzz help

2007-02-13 00:51:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my gf start relationship before 1 month. we were getting closer and closer to eachother, even we had not seen on yet to each. but although we have understand to each very comfertably. she told me that however u look i dont mind i accept u accourding ur nature. but whn we met and she looked me. she told me that i m not according to her. but still i love here very much. now what should i do. should i forget her, or should i make myself according to her or ..... i dont know but i'll not forget her ever.

2007-02-13 00:50:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need to know what to say to him. He's had a really troubled life and i'm really the only friend he's got but sometimes it feels like he's pushing me away even though he don't realize it. Thing is he's so ashamed of himself and his life, he never lets me round his place cos he's ashamed of where he lives. He hates not having anything, says his life is just s**t. I just don't know what to say to him anymore. I've only known him for 8 months but i have really fallen for him. I don't know if he will ever accept that cos he just thinks everyone dosn't like him let alone someone actually loving him. He's been rejected and unloved all his life so he isn't gonna allow it now. I also think he feels something for me but he just keeps like putting a barrier up between us as though to stop anything happening. I have tried talking to him, telling him that he will be ok and his life will get better and i want to know him for himself not what he's got etc. What can i do and say?

2007-02-13 00:50:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him at work a year ago, he is good looking , real man and most importantly we both have the same vision regarding many things like religion and so .. the problem is that he is paid 1/2 of what I am paid , my position is more senior than his...

Based on your experience , do you think this should be a problem after marriage ? How do you think other people at work will perceive that, should I even care for them??

All opinions are welcome , I really need an honest advice.

Thank you very much

2007-02-13 00:50:09 · 13 answers · asked by shdtt 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have custody of my husband's 2 nephews. The boys are 7 and 9 years old. They get overnight visits with their mother and we found out yesterday that she allows them to play Grand Theft Auto while they are there. She has told them not to tell us that she lets them play that game. I know it's not a game for a child of any age to play and I know a few things about the game. Before I confront the mother with her choice of allowing them to play that game I want some more information from someone who has played the game. What kind of inappropriate things take place in the game?

2007-02-13 00:49:42 · 7 answers · asked by zil28ennov 6 in Family

2007-02-13 00:48:45 · 14 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 00:47:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If she would only live 6 months would you take on the responsibility or expect another family member to?It's a heart wrenching job.

2007-02-13 00:46:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-13 00:46:13 · 13 answers · asked by trendadeek 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm nervous to leave her because I've never really been away from her other than an occassional night out. My husband is insisting we take this trip and says our baby will be fine (she is staying with my parents). But, my dad has some health problems and I worry that this is too much to ask of them even though my mom really wants her that week we are gone. I'm just scared something will happen to the baby and I'll be out of the country and unable to return quickly. Or, something will happen to my dad and my mom will have to handle a toddler and my sick father. I'm very stressed out and would rather cancel the trip altogether (it's in 2 months) but my husband says I'm worrying way too much and the chances of something happening to the baby or my dad in the 6 days we're away is slim. His opinion is anything could happen any time so why would it be that specific week. He won this trip through work and feels he worked hard and deserves it. Am I overreacting by not wanting to go?

2007-02-13 00:45:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

:p

2007-02-13 00:43:26 · 10 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend who is older then me is dating my daughter..I know he is a player and he brags about the women he has had..but now he has backstabbed me with my own daughter..my wife is also going nuts over this..what good can come of this?

2007-02-13 00:43:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my grandma paseted away march 12, 2006 and it's been hard on me ever since then

2007-02-13 00:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by Star 1 in Family

i have already got my boyfriend a present. but i want sometthing i can do that will be extra special. something that shows my love or something that is like WOW. has anyone got any ideas? much appreciated ! XOX

2007-02-13 00:41:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 00:40:46 · 11 answers · asked by callan 2 in Singles & Dating

anyone just tell me please!!!!!

2007-02-13 00:40:24 · 17 answers · asked by peanutaunt123456 1 in Singles & Dating