Will there come a day when my fiances feels comfortable enough to communicate with me instead of every other female in the world?
2007-02-13 00:54:33 · 7 answers · asked by Katie N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you aren't communicating well then you shouldn't be getting married. The fact that he can communicate with other women more than he can with you is a major red flag. Hold off on the wedding until he can communicate better with you. Be straight with him and tell him you wouldn't feel comfortable marrying him unless he communicates better with you. If things don't improve then move on because giving multiple chances to someone only encourages the behavior to continue. They start to realize that no matter how much they screw up you will forgive them and give them another chance. It's only when something is threatened to be taken away from us do we truly realize it's value.
2007-02-13 01:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by RaisedByWolves 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It kind of scares me for you that you use fiancee and communicate in the same sentence. Meaning Boyfriend,Husband, Friend, Confidante, Lover, Soulmate, etc. all requires a great degree of communication.You need to share your concerns with him in a non-confrontational way. If he feels that this is just the way that he is, then you need to rethink this entire fiancee situation How can he satify your emotional needs if he is not communicating before marriage. Trust me after marriage it gets worse because that comfort zone kicks in.
2007-02-13 09:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. She wont ever do that. Why? Well because women want to have the agreement and support of other women. You are only the enemy and of course would not agree with her more then half the time. She doesnt want to know if she is wrong about something. She only wants to feel good about herself and be encouraged to do as she wishes, which she will get from the girls.
2007-02-13 09:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really do not know... Ask him about this. To me if he does not communicate with you and only talks to other women then he obviously is not the right one for you and for your life. Break it off with him and move on with your life and look for someone who will communicate with you and not with other women.
2007-02-13 09:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa that isn't right, he should be confiding in you and you should be his best friend, I wouldn't feel comfortable if my spouse didn't communicate with me, this is not good because communication is the thread that holds marriage together and trust is not far be hind.
2007-02-13 09:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will there come a day when we will understand women thoughts?
2007-02-13 09:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by N. R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't talk to you now, he won't talk to you after you're married. Take it from someone who knows.
2007-02-13 09:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by LD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋