me and my gf start relationship before 1 month. we were getting closer and closer to eachother, even we had not seen on yet to each. but although we have understand to each very comfertably. she told me that however u look i dont mind i accept u accourding ur nature. but whn we met and she looked me. she told me that i m not according to her. but still i love here very much. now what should i do. should i forget her, or should i make myself according to her or ..... i dont know but i'll not forget her ever.
2007-02-13 00:50:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never change yourself for anyone especially if that person is superficial and shallow and can not love you for who you are. If she can not love you just the way you are and respect the different changes that we go through during life she is not worth your time and she does not deserve your love.
2007-02-13 00:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy to say that u love innerself of ur lover, but the practical side ios outer part is also thatmuch imp. In my views first impression is the last impression. i f u r not good looking, u can't help it. But yes if u can change ur looks, try it. But i'm not sure that she will come bak. everybody has a right to express his or her views. May be she thought that if u will not be goodlooking, it won't hurt her but she was wrong, when she saw u, her mind was not able to take it.
I'm really sorry for u. But don't break ur heart and go ahead with ur life.
2007-02-14 02:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by sanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is hard to read, I'm assuming you don't know very much english. So, she didn't like the way you looked after you met for the first time? Thats a shame, but I would not take it to hard, everyone has their own idea of what is attractive. I'm sure, there are other women that will think you are sexy.
2007-02-13 08:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget the shallow creature and move on. It may take a while, but you will find the right girl.
2007-02-13 08:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time you will forget her.
But remember she has the same rights, not to like you as you have to like her it is her and your choice and there is not match here so far, so no one should be calling names.
Be glad it is over in 1month only.
2007-02-13 08:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude dont worry dude she is missing a intresting guy its u dude but will see later n comes 2 u n talk with u
mn says sorry 4r what had happen before thats it
2007-02-13 12:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she told you that you are not according to her then it is very much clear that she is not according to you.she never fall in love with you, if one loves you then she will love only you not your look,what ever you look like she never leave you.just relax.there must be one person just made only for you,but i am sure that she is not that girl.
2007-02-13 10:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Dighi_143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Just forget her.
You had lost nothing. She only lost the person who loves her truly.
2007-02-13 09:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anbarasu M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's not interested in the way you look she never will be.....sometimes looks are what attract people instead of their personality. move on because there is someone out there who will except you for who you are and not what you look like...
2007-02-13 08:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kickin' Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's shallow and arrogant. pick someone that loves u outside and inside.
2007-02-13 08:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋