Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

Ok I have a boyfriend and no one likes him. No friends no family members nothing. my friends say that he disrespects me all the time. and my family says that he talks to much crap and is always ignoreing me. my friends say If I am going to date him they want nothing to do with it. and everyone says that I am just going to have my heart broken.
I think I love him but I can't ever tell. When I talk to him he is always wraped up in his video games and ignores me. He only calls when he wants "something" and when he is here he acts like I'm not here. What should I do?? I have a friend who says he wants to date me and I know him very well and I have seen him with his ex girlfriends. He is sweet, kind, and loves me for me. what do you think I should do???
Thanks

2007-02-13 02:21:31 · 28 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it true if one takes guardianship (not foster parent) over their nephew that the state will pay them a monthly amount to take care of the child? My sister-in-law was appointed guardian for her nephew and because they can't find the real mother to pay support for him, she thinks the state is going to pay $400/ month to her in leiu of parental support. We are in Michigan. Is this true?

2007-02-13 02:21:25 · 2 answers · asked by Tink 5 in Family

My half-sister, his child, because she was very young at the time, and because he never abused her, doesn't seem to want to acknowledge to me and my biological sister that these things actually happend. She says, " Why do you want to live in the past?" and "That has nothing to do with me, I wasn't there when those things happened, so it doesn't affect me." Am I right in being shocked by her attitude of non-chalance? I just can't seem to get past her attitude that it doesn't matter to her.

2007-02-13 02:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by motorhead 1 in Family

Hmm..where to start. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month and a half. We get close and stuff but hes always the one that starts it. I dont know if thats coming out right but I want to be the one to start it. I usually know what to do but hes different...not like any other guy Ive dated. I dont know whether to call him "baby" or what to say to get closer to him. Instead of him get closer to me. This is really awkward but I guess what Im tryin to say is..how do you turn your boyfriend on?

2007-02-13 02:20:37 · 24 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently single right now but my Ex Girlfriend is with someone, but I still have strong feelings for her and was considering getting her something for V- Day or is it wrong of me to ask her to be my valentine or to even get something for her even though she already has a boyfriend I still do love this girl. we haven't spoken to each other for about a month now (no phone calls, No text messages, no face to face talk.) but we still see each other ( I decided to keep distance from her because of her Boyfriend ) but this is the first Valentine's day that she's not with me and I just wanted to know if I should get her something or call her or send a text or just do anything to let her know I still love her and Miss her or should I just remain silent and not do or say anthing?? help me out here!!

2007-02-13 02:20:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont have one .... am i lucky or what ! ?

2007-02-13 02:20:04 · 13 answers · asked by jizzumonkey 6 in Singles & Dating

Please just tell me this pain will go away....The pain of My husband moving out and telling me he loves me and cares for me but he is not in love with me...it needs to stop...please tell me it will....

2007-02-13 02:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by hurtalloveragainks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Firstly hello and thank you for taking the time to look at my question. This is a sensitive matter to me and I only require sincere, sensible answers please.
I have been with my bf for 2 years now. I have a little one from my previous marriage. When we first started going out, our sex life was passionate but not in a 2 rabbits kind of way like you would have expected.
When we do have s*x its very much passionate and responsive and all you would expect s*x between 2 in love. The thing is it doesn't happen very often, I cant even say once a week at the moment. We' ae affectionate though, we hug and kiss lots, we snuggle up on the sofa holding hands, we fall asleep each night in one another arms and we flirt madly with one another!
I'm not the most forward of people but thats a different tale and I find making the first move difficult, when I do it doesn't seem to have much of an effect, he says he still fancies me and loves me and says I'm very sexy but is there something up?

2007-02-13 02:19:36 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have the biggest crush on this really hot guy and I THINK he is interested in me...cause he gave me a hug and told me that he never gives good hugs but I got one and told me to feel loved and then he put his arm around my waist and we walked outside. After that he put his arm around me when we sat down and I put my head on his shoulder. Everyone is telling me that he likes me and Im not really sure if he does....But I hope so..anyways Tommorow we are going to hang out with a few friends what should I do...As in like do I continue to flirt with him and see if he askes me out or do I just ignore him and see if he like try's to talk to me ( play hard to get) What?

2007-02-13 02:18:18 · 12 answers · asked by skatergirl3722 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok recently I have asked a question about the guy that I still love. Well something happened within the family and I do not think that his mom wants me to contact him at all. Even though what happened had nothing to do with me she may think I am the same way. I really want to hear what he thinks about me. Like if he misses me or if he hates me and never wants to talk to me again. I have a guys number that could talk to him for me but I haven't tried because I really do not want any trouble. But I need other peoples advice, should i go for it and just text the guy and get him to ask ryan if he misses me just a little or just leave it alone and just keep the wondering to myself.

2007-02-13 02:17:56 · 6 answers · asked by brittany s 1 in Singles & Dating

my love

My love for you will last forever
Never to leave you behinde again
Holding oyu, watching your eyes
I can't stand to hear you cry
My heart dies every time
You're the only reason I live
I love you so much, too much to give up
My angel I can't leave you
You are my everything
You have shown my love for the first time
Staring at your pictures
You really are the prettiest girl I have ever seen
No girl can compare to you
All I want and need is you in my life
You have opened my eyes
Making me realize that this is real
Never letting go of you
I will never leave you.

2007-02-13 02:17:12 · 15 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

Or would you pic another angel ????

2007-02-13 02:15:42 · 18 answers · asked by burlingtony 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-13 02:15:34 · 8 answers · asked by triumphant1 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some new and interesting kissing ideas i can try with my boyfriend? i wanna spice things up with him.

2007-02-13 02:15:26 · 8 answers · asked by north shore cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 02:15:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my wife asked me how my day at work was, a normal question. How do i tell her about my day as a S.W.A.T. sniper? I don't think she should have to hear the horror stories i live out somedays. It is rare that i am used, maybe once a year do i actually need to pull the trigger, but how can i tell her about it?

2007-02-13 02:15:14 · 12 answers · asked by Drew 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why am I attracted to Grown 25 and up, Independent Black woman. I'm from detroit michigan, im arab, and im 19. I have 4 sisters, and have always been raised around woman. I am very very attracted to older black woman, with their personalties, and physically. I love when they talk proper and educated, I admire and respect them. Grown and sexy black woman, I love yall. thanks

2007-02-13 02:15:12 · 5 answers · asked by NorthEast_Swagga 1 in Singles & Dating

is a lesbian? Her comments on facebook to her friends suggest this plus she send a faceboook rose for valentine's day to one of her female friends. Anyway we are most likely going to be working in camp together. Should I keep talking to her? I mean whats the point if I am going to be stuck on being friends with her? Should I just ask her straight out and risk her getting mad?

2007-02-13 02:14:54 · 3 answers · asked by RT 1 in Singles & Dating

Jumping from girl to girl, just hooking up, stop calling their ex, and stop being out just to get some?

2007-02-13 02:14:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm really bored during my working day and want to know what a good way to spend my time is while sitting at my desk....

2007-02-13 02:14:48 · 35 answers · asked by Nicola V 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf keeps gawking at other women when im with him. i talked to him about it and he still keeps doing it. hes been doing it for 2 1/2 yrs and im finally tired of it. its a big difference to look and see then to stare in lust. i cant take it anymore and its hurting our relationship and my inner peace. so what would you do stay or leave him. also i have trust issues cuz he has lied to me so much in the past. so for all i know he is still looking for something new. what do you think?

2007-02-13 02:14:18 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

cause i for some starange reason have someone who does this her reason is because it feels good i need sleep

2007-02-13 02:14:02 · 7 answers · asked by thelement_99 2 in Singles & Dating

If you can see a girl's nipples through her clothes does it mean she's feeling aroused?

2007-02-13 02:13:52 · 18 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Singles & Dating

Name them.... they'll never know who u are!!!

2007-02-13 02:13:36 · 38 answers · asked by Nicola V 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 02:13:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I called her niece's mother, and I've been called everything except my name. I tried to do the right thing but now I feel like I should have stayed out of it...The niece is 20 yrs old, and evryone in my friends family is calling my house. And to the reader that listed all my past questions DONT JUDGE!!!!!!!!! t

2007-02-13 02:12:39 · 3 answers · asked by val l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

been torn b/ween two lovers, one you have been with for a while, and one you like and think about when your with the other?? Is this normal, even if its not normal, has anyone gone through this? How did it turn out and what did you end up doing?

2007-02-13 02:12:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is good to me but when it come for me to ask a guestion to him he do not say notthing to me, but someone ask a question to him he answer the question to the another person. What can I do about that. I just want answers to my question from my husband

2007-02-13 02:12:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like him,but i dont know if i want to date right now.

2007-02-13 02:11:34 · 15 answers · asked by Marlie P 1 in Singles & Dating

Why does my mother think that I should vacation with her and my father when they have belittled me all their lives and why can't I get over this? I try, but the hatred seeps. I am 42 -- should I now know better?

2007-02-13 02:11:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce