Ok I have a boyfriend and no one likes him. No friends no family members nothing. my friends say that he disrespects me all the time. and my family says that he talks to much crap and is always ignoreing me. my friends say If I am going to date him they want nothing to do with it. and everyone says that I am just going to have my heart broken.
I think I love him but I can't ever tell. When I talk to him he is always wraped up in his video games and ignores me. He only calls when he wants "something" and when he is here he acts like I'm not here. What should I do?? I have a friend who says he wants to date me and I know him very well and I have seen him with his ex girlfriends. He is sweet, kind, and loves me for me. what do you think I should do???
Thanks
2007-02-13 02:21:31 · 28 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him he is a jerk off. he doesnt deserve u... go with the other guy
2007-02-13 02:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like to be treated like sh*t then stay with ur boyfriend. If u had to ask this question then u already know that ur boyfriend is not treating u right. Why dont u give the friend a chance and see where that leads. If u stay in that relationship with ur boyfriend it will lead to nothing but disasters later down the road.
2007-02-13 02:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ma Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you need to ask is why you have so little self-respect and self-esteem to allow your bf to ignore you, disrespect you, and call you only when he wants something?
It's time to dump the bf and take stock of yourself to find out why you allow people to treat you that way.
2007-02-13 02:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Come on, everybody you know has already told you what you should do!
The mere fact that you cannot, or choose not to see the truth about this relationship indicates that you are no where near mature enough to be in ANY relationship.
Leave him, listen to your parents, cause they obviously know more then you do, and grow up.
2007-02-13 02:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, listen to your friends and family. They often see things you do not because you are too wrapped up in a crappy relationship. He's a loser, dump him and get with the other guy. Trust me you will be much happier.
2007-02-13 02:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a hard one. My suggestion is to voice your displeasure and if doesn't improve, break up with him.
It shouldn't matter what other people think about him, it should only matter what you think of him.
But, he shouldn't ignore you and you should priority over stupid video games.
2007-02-13 02:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly you aren't being respected in your current relationship so unless that is the way you want to spend the rest of your life then I would end it now and move on.
when you find that one person thats right for you you will not have any questions or doubts
2007-02-13 02:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what to do, so just do it. Dump the jerk you're with now, and go with somebody that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Good luck!
2007-02-13 02:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u not just answer ur question urself... no? let me ask u this... do u want to be continue to be treated like a door nob for the rest of your life? no then choose the seet guy... Look us guys who are actually nic do have more to offer!!
2007-02-13 02:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll still be playin his video games next year when u guys enter the 7th grade so it's something 2 think bout
2007-02-13 02:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question, chica. Dump the jerk and go on a date or two with your friend. If you don't try, you'll regret it.
2007-02-13 02:40:44 · answer #11 · answered by Kristi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋