I'm currently single right now but my Ex Girlfriend is with someone, but I still have strong feelings for her and was considering getting her something for V- Day or is it wrong of me to ask her to be my valentine or to even get something for her even though she already has a boyfriend I still do love this girl. we haven't spoken to each other for about a month now (no phone calls, No text messages, no face to face talk.) but we still see each other ( I decided to keep distance from her because of her Boyfriend ) but this is the first Valentine's day that she's not with me and I just wanted to know if I should get her something or call her or send a text or just do anything to let her know I still love her and Miss her or should I just remain silent and not do or say anthing?? help me out here!!
2007-02-13 02:20:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No gifts. Why reward someone that is breaking your heart. A parent disciplines their child by removing a privilege, and rewards them by giving them a privilege. You are hurt and do you honestly think your gift would be something b/c you just care as a friend. Its your way of fighting for her and if she doesn't come back you are hurting again. It's like the scab theory. You are constantly removing the scab, and it will never heal. You need to heal first and then maybe reevaluate if things were right with her. There is a reason why we hurt. When we are sick we have to take care of ourselves, not someone else. You are hurting, you need to take care of yourself.
2007-02-14 05:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.
2015-01-28 11:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-29 07:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i actually had this happen to me. last valentines my ex came to my house and left flowers and candy at my door steps.. honestly it was sweet and all but it got me really upset because we had broken up after a year and change.. i called and cursed him out cause it was really rude to me in the sense that i didn't want anything to do with him and i still don't want anything to do with him and rude to my boyfriend at the time.. so i suggest you just let het be.. she moved on and you should too... !
2007-02-13 08:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by sherrryberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually me and my friends were talking about this the other day.
If you get an ex a vday present he/she will think they must get you something too. so just write a letter. let her know you still care and talk about old memories. Its alot easier and she wont feel obligated
2007-02-13 02:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by smileygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-20 09:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y on earth do u want to give her something if she has a bf?? i mean move on... dont u think dat shes over you?? Hello..... i mean dats sweet an all but.... i really think you shouldnt.....Put your self in her bf shoes.... how would you like it if her x would give her somethin and you guys are together?? think about it move on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-13 02:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's an ex for a reason.
She's moved on and so should you. I wouldn't get her anything.
2007-02-13 02:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to say, but you two aren't together anymore. don't get her anything for vday. she has moved on, you should too
2007-02-13 02:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, leave your x girl alone, move on
2007-02-13 02:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋