Please just tell me this pain will go away....The pain of My husband moving out and telling me he loves me and cares for me but he is not in love with me...it needs to stop...please tell me it will....
2007-02-13 02:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by hurtalloveragainks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It will go way WHEN you let go. If you keep on haging on to nothing and having false hope, then you will continue to suffer. YOu keep on reading in to the part when he is sugar coating the bad news with "I care" and bla bla bla and vhoose NOT to listen to what he is saying "I'm not in love with you". If you continue believing that he is coming back and that he doesn;t really mean what he says and that he will see the light, etc... you are sadly wrong and will continue to suffer.
My advice, let go, let go and let go, so you can move on.
Good luck
2007-02-13 02:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you may not think so... YES it will the pain will pass and you will gain back your life.. I know that right now you feel as the word is upon your shoulders and that your heart and soul are on strike!! but you be strong and take it one day at a time... everyday you will find a reason to smile, in to the pain start to dull... and guess what you may find love again. your man leaving is bad now, but later it may be good because he is leaving a space for a man who may be outhere looking for someone to love.. dont give up on love and always remember to love your self more than you would love a man.. You will make it. just say it to your self everyday.. I feel your pain sister.. You will be fine. good luck.
2007-02-13 02:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time, it will. Believe, it's not very easy at first and it's possible the pain may never completely go away. But you will contiune on with your life and you will find a new love.
2007-02-13 02:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by ladydi_1987 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep yourself busy, or go to counseling. You can't make someone love you. After awhile, go find that someone special for you.
2007-02-13 02:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will. It will take time and sometimes it may seem endless but keep hope. Time heals everything.
2007-02-13 02:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually. keep yourself occupied.
2007-02-13 03:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely will. It will take time, but it will happen.
2007-02-13 02:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is all you have, use it wisely and be peaceful.
2007-02-13 02:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋