what do I do if I think this girl I have been talking to for a while now?

Question

is a lesbian? Her comments on facebook to her friends suggest this plus she send a faceboook rose for valentine's day to one of her female friends. Anyway we are most likely going to be working in camp together. Should I keep talking to her? I mean whats the point if I am going to be stuck on being friends with her? Should I just ask her straight out and risk her getting mad?

Answer 1

No I wouldn't ask. A persons sexuality shouldn't come between anything. So what a girl likes a girl. Nothing is wrong with that. It may be different but still, you never know you can make a new bestfriend

Answer 2

Girls and women who are straight have been known to send valentines to each other, write sweet loving notes to each other, and even hold hands at times. They like the feeling of having a close friend who enjoys the things they do. So I wouldn't count on that evidence for proof of sexual identity.

Keep talking to her, don't ask or pressure her into an answer to your question, and see how things work out. Especially if you two are going to be working together. It always helps to have a friend of any kind around. If she has anything to tell you about something as personal as her sexual preference, she will when she's ready to.

And even if she does end up preferring girls to boys, at least you'll have someone to talk to about how girls are (it never hurts to have inside information) and she may open you up to a much broader view of the world.

Answer 3

what ppl dont understand (mostly guys) is that you should neva stop being someones friend just because theyre not attracted to u, or taken , or in this case maybe lesbian.the more friends you have the better life is and the more opportunities you are exposed 2.

anyway, wat i think you should do is ask her out if she says no , dont hit on her again move on. if she says she'll date u then date.