Me and my ex have been broken up for a few years and I still send her gifts on holidays and sometimes just out of the blue for no reason at all. She seems grateful to be receiving the gift. She is currently married so I send them to her work. She made the mistake of taking some flowers I sent her home because she though they were from her husband. He wasn’t so happy and tried to find out who they where from by calling the flower company but they wouldn’t tell him. She clamed not to know who they where from either. Is this wrong? Catch 22 it was a same-sex relationship!!
2007-02-13 01:01:19 · 16 answers · asked by knowing is have the battle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's time you get on w/ your life!!
2007-02-13 01:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one, might be a good idea to just cut her off from the gifts. You might be causing her harm in her marriage that would ultimately cause her harm by sending her gifts. If you still want to be her friend, thats ok.
Does the husband know about you, who you are? Most guys would be ok knowing another woman sent their wives flowers even if it was a past love... you may want to see if she'll be honest with her husband first then he won't mind so much if she comes home with mysterious gifts.
2007-02-13 01:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Some Lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good 1st of all DONT get a new gf if your gonna purchase her anything.!! And say I do purchase her something in my oppinion that would be particularly sweet and i would feel loved despite the fact that I hve a stalker after me Soo certain go get her whatever make her have somethin to smile about.. Don't go to bigg though no dog, iPod, mobile ect just somethin small perhaps a Teddy undergo flora chocolate ect make it come from ur heart that's the exceptional method to do it.!
2016-08-10 15:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely 1st of all DONT get a clean gf in the adventure that your gonna purchase her some thing.!! And say I do purchase her some thing in my oppinion that would desire to be truly candy and that i'd experience enjoyed even although I hve a stalker after me Soo valuable circulate get her some thing make her have somethin to grin approximately.. do no longer circulate to bigg although no canine, iPod, telephone ect purely somethin small perhaps a Teddy undergo flora chocolate ect make it come from ur coronary heart this is the final thank you to do it.!
2016-09-29 01:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with what you're doing. How would you like it if someone sent your significant other these gifts? I think maybe you aren't over this girl. She's married now. What you're doing is inappropriate.
I'd be mad as hell if my husband's ex sent him things for Valentine's Day, etc.
2007-02-13 01:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Hey you! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont send her things. And dont send her a valentines gift sorry but it sounds like you would like you and her to be back together and your causing problems in her marriage. If she wanted to be with you she wouldn't have married him.
2007-02-13 01:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a nice thought, shows that you are still kind of freinds, with no hard feelings.
I would be vary careful though, I think your best bet is to stick to very cliche gifts. and leave out the specifics. some candy that says happy valetines, or chocolates or a card.
2007-02-13 01:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by The Enlightened One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth are you sending gifts to your EX? Her husband has every right to be upset. You need to move on.
2007-02-13 01:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by shivers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother...
Leave her in the past where she obviously belong's or you would still be with her...
You wouldn't like the fact your partner was gettin sneaky gifts off her Ex now would you...
Just remember what goes around comes around be warned....
2007-02-13 01:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by loulou777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude why dont you take the money you were going to spend on this gift and go and have the word "STUPID" tattooed onto your forehead?
if you aint getting p u s s y, you shouldnt be sending gifts and even if you are getting it, its a bad idea
2007-02-13 01:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by MagicalPussy V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just now sent flowers to my ex gf in Singapore who is separated from her hubby. I am also a separated guy.
2007-02-13 01:05:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋