what should i do about a girl who like me and another guy?

Question

A girl i know recently left her bf of two years to be with me but could not seem to let go of him completely and as a result said it would be best if we were still friends and i think i am in love with this girl but i have no idea whether i should back off or kepp pursuing her i really do miss her and she says she still likes me but she doesnt no what she wants
plzz help

Answer 1

first off, u dont love her, takes way longer then that to love someone, ur infatuated (if i only knew how to spell)... secondly, if she broke up with her bf of 2 years to go out with you then what makes u think that she wont break up with u after a year or 2 to go out with someone else... it shows she not really loyal and cant really b trusted, just leave her, shes not worth it

Answer 2

You cant make someone want you if it isnt meant to be. There is no reason that you should allow her to mess with you feeling like that either. She knows exactly what she is doing. There are thousands and thousands of girls in the world looking for someone to share thier life and feelings with so dont get stuck on stupid over one that obviously is messed up in the head and doesnt seem to care about anyones feelings but her own. You should be happy to be rid of her because if she was able to of left her boyfriend of two years to be with you and then easily went back to him can you imagine if she would of stayed with you longer and you really were all in love and she one day would of told you later I found someone new. That really would of sucked . And trust me if she did it once she will do it again. Find a girl who is single and one that melts in your arms and only has eyes for you. Then you do your best to keep her happy and hopefully things last for along time if not forever. Here read this and it should help.
People come into your life for a reason. a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a reason it is usually to meet a need you have expressed . They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support and to aide you physically emotionally or spirtually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for a reason you need them to be . Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end or sometimes they die or just walk away and sometimes they act up and make you take a stand. what we must realize is that our need has been met . our desire fullfilled and thier work is done. the prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
In other words someone upstairs is letting you know its time to move on and that she isnt the one for you. It doesnt mean that you are any less of a man or that you did anything wrong its just that she isnt the one for you. ANyway you should never have to say you think that you love someone. If you love someone you wont have to think it , you will know. Dont sit on the bench watching the game get out there and play the field.