this guy is crazy bout me but i just like him nnormaly, just a bit more than a friend sometimes. and everyone expects me to be with him coz he's quite a catch or whatever, and everyone knows about it since he told everyone. my family, his family, extended families, colleagues, school friends, friends of friends, etc. my brother really hates him (like really really! they used to be friends but fell out) and my mom loves him to bits, more than i do at all. my sister used to have a thing for him, and so did one of my friends. even my granma loves him. but i dont know. please help!!!
2007-02-13 00:53:52 · 9 answers · asked by mynaamynmuil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know how i feel, coz i never had to feel anthing before, nothing that would bring big consequences to others..
2007-02-13 01:09:12 · update #1
Seems like you like him, but dont want to. You have to ask yourself what are you affraid of?
2007-02-13 01:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I am going to tell you and I hope it's good enough. Family,friends, etc... don't live your life you do!!!Don't go through your life trying to love someone that everybody wants you to love because that relationship will not work out! Do what you want to do and go with who you want to but don't spend your life thinkin about who else you could have had besides this (guy) Good Luck!!!
2007-02-13 09:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cherri09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What don't you know? Just don't sleep with him or act like a girl friend (kissing, holding hands) Pay for your own way when you go out as friends. Who cares what everyone else thinks about him, let your sister/mother/grandmother date him.
If you don't sleep with him he will soon go away.
2007-02-13 08:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds sticky. Be sure you sort out your own feelings first, whether you would want to be with this guy for many years to come. If not, then don't let your family and friends influence you otherwise.
2007-02-13 08:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT allow family and friends to push you into a relationship you are not ready for. Nothing good will come of it.
You do what you are comfortable with.
2007-02-13 08:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest with him. tell him you only want to be friends. if you arent careful you will end up married to someone you dont love, because everyone likes him.
2007-02-13 09:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by R L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go out with him just cos everyone else likes him. if you don't fancy him like that then just stay friends.
2007-02-13 09:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its as easy as this if you need to ask.............................................. then you already have your answer. Dont be a dipshit and go out with someone you dont really like. its a waist of time and from the sounds of it he will be destroyed when you finally break up.
2007-02-13 09:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by nate c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its about YOU not everybody else in ur family.. so its what YOU want.. gotta be a lil selfish u see.
2007-02-13 08:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Radish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋