2007-02-13 00:46:13 · 13 answers · asked by trendadeek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks for your comments i helps me a lot....
2007-02-13 01:00:16 · update #1
No, you wouldn't. It is necessary to have faith in your husband, in his integrity and his innate value as a human being. "Not worth it" is a conclusion in itself. If he is not worth your time and energy, then the marriage is not worth your time and energy. Or, to look at it the other way, whatever he may be worth, if you cannot see his worth, you may as well move on. Perhaps he will find someone who can value him.
2007-02-13 00:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would succeed with the relationship . Here is the question have you stopped trying ? Try to find ways that may make you fall in love with him again . I know it is hard when your husband may not be trying as hard as you . The key answer to that is when the marriage does fail he or anyone else can never say you did not try to spice the marriage up again . If he is a cheater or a druggie and you tried everything possible to help and it hasn't then I say he's not worth it and get out . If you are willing to spice it up , your next question should be ways I can spice up my marriage in and out side the bedroom . GOOD LUCK !!!!!
2007-02-13 01:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a time 4 years ago when I thought my husband wasn't worth it - I stayed cuz of the kids and my religious beliefs. I am now SO happy that I stayed - he is wonderful, what was I thinking?? The point is - feelings change - you might not think he's worth it now - but that doesn't mean you will always feel that way.
2007-02-13 01:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Zabes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your husband is not worth it what is that saying about you in your choice of husbands? Why bother staying married when you could let him go and be happy with someone else?
2007-02-13 00:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know someone isn't worth it, your always going to question if u did the right thing, there must be things in the relationship that u saw that made u feel it just isn't worth it, best to get out of it, and move on if u already know the outcome.
2007-02-13 01:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what you are trying to ask.Why would you waste your time with someone that you did'nt think was worth it..Sound's to me like you are wasting your time and cheating yourself out of a happy relationship with the right person and your husband obviously is not right for you.
2007-02-13 00:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... a relationship can't be successful if you don't value your partner. Why would you even want to be with someone you didn't think was worth the effort?
2007-02-13 02:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by RaisedByWolves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you have to have faith in him, and you have to see beyond all the bad things that make him seem not worth it. everyone has flaws. but if you really think he isn't worth it you will end up resenting him and throwing his mistakes in his face, and chances are he will be the one that gets fed up with you and leaves because he is tired of hearing it. to succeed in any relationship you have to take the bad with the good.
2007-02-13 01:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't worth it, why did you married him?
You know married couple is like pair of shoes, if he doesn't worth it, you do not worth it ether.
2007-02-13 00:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to make it and two to break it!
2007-02-13 00:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋