Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

2007-02-13 17:37:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-13 17:35:57 · 7 answers · asked by kimaya 1 in Singles & Dating

my mate is called alex and she sleeps with everyones boyfreinds... even if the boys are damn ugly or damn hot she will sleep with them and break relationships. she broke me up with my last boyfriend... i'v moved on and now found a new man! I cant invite my new boyfriend to any of my parties cuz i know she will come on to him.. I think shes trying to prove a point that shes the most hottest girl and no girl is better than her. whats the best way i can stop her or get revenge? Ppl say sleep with her boyfriend but she never has one... she always single thats why she breaks ppl relationships!!

2007-02-13 17:35:42 · 14 answers · asked by amy r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

K, well me and my boyfriend well we've broken up and gotten together a couple times, anyways long story whatever, but we were broken up for a whole summer and i hadn't seen him from july to january and now we're going out again and i really want to kiss him but like what if i do will he think i'm stupid for making the first move? So umm yeah... Do all guys like girls who are confident enough to make a first move? Or is it just some guys with certain things?

2007-02-13 17:35:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad are getting a divorce..but my dad left my mom PREGNANT!now she doesn't noe what to do..my dad wants an abortion cause there not getting back together..any ideas i could help my mom thro this?

2007-02-13 17:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Singles & Dating

I met one who was real nice and pretty at least her pic was. We talked for a few days. She was a widow of 5 children. Long story short she dissed me and about a year later I saw a message from her on 360 notifications. It was her current bf. We talked and then I found out how she became a widow. She was chearing on her hubby of 15 years and her then bf killed him. Can you imagine what that could do to a womens mind? To know she was the cause of her own self becoming a widow etc. Now im glad (she freakin blocked me). LMAO

2007-02-13 17:34:19 · 11 answers · asked by tfh777 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you do if your husband of 9 yrs buy you a rainbow flower thing when e knows to buy only red roses.then he says what dose it realy matter what i buy

2007-02-13 17:33:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have liked this one guy for many months now but have not ever been sure weather or not he liked me back and i was wondering if any of the following are signs or not any advice would be helpful
one he seems to fidget alot when he talks to me like if we are standing by a locker and he is talking to me he will be playing wiyh the lock or some other thing in his reach and he is a very popular person and i am not at all but he continuasly talks to me but i hate all his freinds and i am positive they hate me back and whenever he sees me he will hold my shoulder or pat my back but not like really gently or anything like that and he always waves to me in a polite way with a smile on his face and no matter how weird i try to act around him and try to see if i can freak him out he just tells his freinds and then starts to talking to me again and lastly once when i was walking out of my school door i turned around and he was watching me walk. If you can help me it would be greatly aprichated

2007-02-13 17:30:58 · 15 answers · asked by rcasays 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 17 turning 18 soon, and my boyfriend is 16. I personally dont think there is really anything wrong with that. my friends look down at me for dating a younger guy, but age is just a number! right! I need yall's opinions! Thanks ahead of time!

2007-02-13 17:30:52 · 10 answers · asked by miss thANG!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

10 years ago my grandma got put into an assisted living nursing apartment. She lives on her own but it is just an apartment place for older people. When this happened my mom went to meet her sister and they filled out paperwork to put the house in their names. My mom's brother lives in what use to be my grandmas house. My mom works FT and makes less than 18,000 a year meanwhile my aunt the one who my mom met to fill out this paperwork makes over 60,000. My mom gets the house tax every year for 600 bucks for the house my GRANDMA does not even live in. My mom's brother lives there who makes more money than my mom. My brother is 17 and they have no money saved for him to go to college and my mom's car is unreliable but they cannot afford a new one. I am 25 and live on my own but it really irritates me that my mom pays this. Should I e-mail my aunt (lives far away) to confront her. My mom said she did not know she would be getting this bill when they signed the paper.

2007-02-13 17:30:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I always wonder why when my bf goes to get his daughter he never let me see his baby mother. The other day when his baby mother came to drop her off he meet them downstairs and then later I went with him to take her home and he told me to wait in the train station. I dont like it because I always feel like he is hiding something. Before when we started dating and his baby mother came over and I was on my way over he would tell me not to come, or to wait in some store. It was only one time that he actually didnt tell me to hide and it was when I confronted him about it, but he still do it and it wasn't like he introduced us. I was just wondering is that a problem or am I just reading into it to muc? Serious answers only please

2007-02-13 17:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-13 17:28:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We got married before a judge and I'm the only one that had a ring. He didn't pick out the ring, he gave me money and had me pick out what I wanted. Which was ok but I secretly wished he would've picked out something from the heart instead. We will be married for 3 years coming this June and I bought him a wedding band for Christmas because he said he should wear one and promised me he would if I got him one. He told me he would wear it when hes not working and getting dirty for chance of losing it. But its been almost 2 months and it is still in the box. He doesn't get dirty when hes working, he sits at a desk all day. I can understand if he was going to an oil rig everyday like his job sometimes requires but he doesn't. Is there something I'm missing here that he won't wear it? I DO NOT pressure him about it. I have asked him once or twice to try it on because I think it needs resized. He says he can't get used to it. Is there some hidden message why he wont wear it, or am I...

2007-02-13 17:28:45 · 29 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about 10-15 pounds more. Would you feel the same way about them as you did when they were thinner?

2007-02-13 17:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a hairy chest and i have never met someone who complaine about my hair unlike other guys. Please tell me what you think.

2007-02-13 17:27:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a senior in HS. I believe that a girl I used to like directed this towards me:

I have always known what you were doing and i never trusted you for a second so get it out of your head that you had me fooled! The difference between me and you though is the fact that i wasnt lying about what i said and did it was me the whole time and that was how i felt. Im not going to lie, a part of me wanted it, but there was an even bigger part of me that knows i cant waste such a good thing that i already have. In all honesty i feel sorry for you.you cant be yourself around anyone all you know how to do anymore is lie which is why everyone gets pushed away.i know you think everyone wants to hurt you but thats not true i never did.i hope someday you wont feel the need to put on an act infront of everyone then you will just be yourself.

Your thoughts? Of course there is ALWAYS two sides to every story. Evidently, this is her side....

2007-02-13 17:27:55 · 5 answers · asked by g13player 1 in Singles & Dating

i love her very much! I had done everything to get her heart. I give her chocolates, teddybear, and many more.. i also try to impress my feeling by smile at her sometimes, sing a song for her and every day i will ask her whether she is fine or not. when she sick, i am very worried and i will always try to get close to her. but.. unfortunately, i think she does not love me and just want me to be her best friend. Before our graduation, i saw her with another boy sitting together, laughing together.. and you know.. i just want to cry. I wants to be her special person in her life but when i see that, i know that i cant have the chance. and now.. i want to forget her..but at the same time i very love and love at her. I try to forget her by make relationship with somebody, but i still cant forget her. I still want to have her.. please... somebody help me..

2007-02-13 17:26:55 · 6 answers · asked by mofaz 1 in Singles & Dating

At 12 am, my hubbo surprised me with giving me my Valentines gift early. He is VERY impatient and not good at keeping secrets, and he said he was so excited and knew I was going to love it and hiding it for two days was enough for him.

To my surprise it was an ipod!

I was so ecstatic! I had been wanting one for a long time, and it is great since I am going back home in a few days and it would be nice to have on the plane with me

BUT

I had told him I didn't want anything for Valentines, except for him to take me to this expensive restaurant, that is $65 a plate, and nothing else, but then he surprised me with this!

We aren't the best off financially, and he is switching jobs so we need to have a some savings, since it requires a 3 wk training and only pays 300 a week

So..

Should I tell him to return the ipod and go to the restaurant or skip the restaurant and keep it?

Serious answers only please!

BTW His present I saved for and bought is equally expensive!

2007-02-13 17:26:14 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Mizz Al-Abbady♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

have u eva just sat n cried
all day because the one you love lied
have u ever wondered y should i try
when all that boy does is make me cry

have u ever just played your part
even though u knew he'd been cheatin on u from da start
have u eva loved somebody in every way
to da point u didn't know what to say

have u ever just came apart
because the one u loved played with ur heart
have u eva wished upon a star
but that wish never went very far

have u eva laid down at night
and thought why did i start that stupid fight
have u eva felt used
and all this time been confused

have u eva felt like giving up
when u had ur gurlz beside u alwayz cheering u up
r u tired of writing ur 1st name with his last
knowing it will neva be

2007-02-13 17:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by rocio_juarez@sbcglobal.net 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it good for your relationship or bad will it hurt me in the end???

2007-02-13 17:25:49 · 9 answers · asked by texastycoon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He honest to me everything happened between him and the girl, but I feel so hurt when I listen to it. But I couldn't let him hide from me by not telling me. He said they are just lonely because of his gf and her bf have lesser time together and always misunderstanding. He is coming back to me, but should I forgive him that only kiss?

2007-02-13 17:25:29 · 11 answers · asked by y6hueeey 1 in Singles & Dating

Valentines are for couples to show each other how much they love each other. But as for single people, it just makes them feel bad because, they dont have anybody :-(

2007-02-13 17:25:23 · 4 answers · asked by LaLa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom was married to a man who beat her in front of my little brother from age 0-2 (she left him after that) There was also a lot of verbal and emotional abuse. I was already 8 years old by that time, and had a loving upbringing by my mom and grandparents. But my poor little brother! They thought he had extreme colic for 15 months until they finally did some other tests and determined that he was basically traumatized from such a violent environment.

He is now 13, and has struggled his whole life with anger issues and such. Our step father is wonderful, and he and my mom have tried so hard to give him a calm loving environment. Alas, my brother still has some issues, even though he cant even remember the abuse conciously. I'm wondering if there is anyone out there who grew up in an abusive home, especially during infantcy, who managed to grow into a well-adjusted and loving adult, perhaps even a loving parent. I would appreciate any advice & personal experiences. Thanks

2007-02-13 17:25:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In other words, what should I do about my newfound freedom?

2007-02-13 17:24:38 · 24 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf have told me I better stop before he leave me because I was getting an attitude for no reason at him. But considering our history I have had all I can take from him. He is not affectionate, doesn't tell me I am beautiful or anything, owe me about $2000 for me helping him get back on his feet, very stubborn, and doesn't want to accept anything I say. He feel that since he is working now that I will loose a "good" guy but at this point I dont really care to much for him. I am not happy anymore and I feel that he may realize it as well. Right now all he has to offer is his little $20-$60 every week and sex, other then that I dont need him. When we started dating he hide his cell, even now sometimes when he go out he is out for over 3 hours.But I am afraid that if I stop seeing him I will never get my money back, and I will be bored, I dont have any friends. What should I do???

2007-02-13 17:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is NOT a complaint.
Wife: I need tea, fast food, fried food, tasty food, food of choice. Husband: OK. buy, cook, eat, enjoy, marry.
Husband: I like lassi, healthy, seasonal, simple, taaza, food of my choice. Wife: No. you have no right to express. I eat ALL. You give me trouble. I can NOT cook for all. Eat what is given/offered. I never give her trouble. I simply express my need. I never ask her to eat of my choice. Manchaha khao aur manchaha khane do.
What is husband: Begger/ Financer/Fool/ Lover? I can earn more if she give me food of choice. When she is ill or in trouble, I always eat whatever is given. But when she is alright, she is not in a mood to understand my need. She ask everyone-child, damad, guest, mother, neighbourer-What will you eat? but she never ask same question to me. She tells a lot (100). I hear all. If I tell only 10, she refuse. I am NOT bad. She has fulll right to eat as per her taste. I have the same right or not? Her relatives to me:Adjust

2007-02-13 17:23:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-13 17:22:56 · 12 answers · asked by upendra sharma 1 in Singles & Dating

Can u honestly believe her that nothin can happen with her and her so called friends? I think NOT what do u guys think?

2007-02-13 17:22:05 · 4 answers · asked by Ichigo 4 in Friends

Can you submit to me a very romantic peom for my girl.

2007-02-13 17:21:38 · 8 answers · asked by aries19768 1 in Singles & Dating

The way she approaches me n the way she acts are the reason to fall in love with her.But has a fiance whom i donnot her status about him.But she seemed unhappy with himbecause the marriage relation ship was made not by the decision she made but her family.What can i do ?the time is running for me to have another friend .Iwant to know also about her attitude about me.

2007-02-13 17:20:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating