Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

there is this girl I like and she likes me but she is holding back because she is recently out of a divorce and i;m out of long term relationship my self...so we are not rushing into anything ....just good friends for now
I want to send here a message for v-day where I dont confess love or ask her to be my valentine ...I dont want to be pushy but I do not want just sit back and do nothing
so here is what I had in mind

"not sure what to say
today is a fine day
hope I'm not over the line
but I'm glad you a friend of mine
have a splendid v-day ~hugs~"

would you add something else to it?

and dont slam me because I;m sending a txt message
I'm a busy person and I'm out of town constantly ....even this entire week....and ordering flowers or sending gift would be to over the top
besides we txt each other a lot so i think its not in bad taste

2007-02-13 16:56:34 · 7 answers · asked by mr.ask_a_lot 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 16:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by VRM Baby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i bought myself chocolates for v-day?

2007-02-13 16:55:58 · 25 answers · asked by Robert 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a guy in grade 9 and I like this girl ALOT!!. Her personality is very energetic, happy (all the time), kind and popular. There is a big difference between me and her, I am basically a high school nerd ( I do have friends ), I am very shy, boring, kind and a bit helpful. I want to talk to her and eventually make her my girlfriend ( she is already my friend and she knows me ). To make her my girlfriend, I have to change my personality from boring and shy to energetic and fun. How can I change my personality ( I had this personality when I was younger but when I was in grade 7, I lost it )?

2007-02-13 16:55:30 · 6 answers · asked by devillivedviled 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 16:55:03 · 9 answers · asked by Luckly Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a Catholic - yes one of those people who are saving themselves until marriage. But with the whole abstaining idea... how far does it go? Are kissing and cuddling allowed? How about touching and feeling or even dry sex or oral sex? Obviously none of those are intercourse but how far does the abstinence rule go?

2007-02-13 16:54:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 16:54:23 · 13 answers · asked by maggi 1 in Singles & Dating

I came to school today wearing brand new socks and none of the other kids complimented them and now I feel like a total loser. All I ever wanted was to be cool, maybe I should try smoking.

2007-02-13 16:53:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm getting try of holding everything inside when someone say something that hurt my feeling i will smile like what they say was right. I will even laugh about it but i hold everything inside and i start thinking about how i hated the person, how i hated everyone that make me feel bad about myself. And i don't want to speak out because it may turn in to a fight and i may really end up beating someone badly up. This is really bothering me i don't want to end up hurting someone really bad. For example what happened in school today one of my friend screamed at me because i say i didn't like what she gave me. She throw cards at me and just kept making a big deal about it. My other friends started laughing and i laughed with them but I hated her even after i pretend like everything was okay . I even went to her house after school but i looked at her and i really dislike her. I don't like to keep thing inside and lately it as being really happening like that. Is this normal.

2007-02-13 16:53:00 · 6 answers · asked by Tummy 4 in Friends

I am recently divorced and went on my first date in 7 yrs on Sunday. I had lunch with her, she asked me to hang with her for the afternoon, then we had dinner too. At the end of the date we hugged and went on our way. Then she emailed me the next day with a very generic email which was nice, but nothing too deep. I really liked her and want to do something cool / original. My question is would it be weird if I got her a valentines day gift and sent it to her work and if so....what wouldn't scare her off? Thanks!

2007-02-13 16:52:57 · 10 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Singles & Dating

I started a new job on my college campus and a guy that I work with is quite attractive (looks and personality). Anyway, we hit it off right away the first night we met but then we didn't work again for 2 weeks so we didn't see each other. Last weekend we worked together and after work he invited me over to watch a movie. While we were watching the movie he put his arm around me and kissed me. After the movie he took me home but nothing more was said about the kiss or seeing each other again. A couple days later I sent him a short email just saying hi and asking what he was up to for the week. He replied back and at then end asked what I was up to. I replied and at the end said we should hang out again. That was Sunday night and he hasn't responded yet. What should I do?? Is he just not interested? Should I stop trying or give it one more shot?

2007-02-13 16:52:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am on Trinessa(generic orthotricylcin) for 6 months now. I am 20 years old and have been on bc since I turned 18. Recently however I started my period when I am taking active pills. it isn't spotting, it was really painful when it started and it's still going kind of heavy. I really want to know whats going on. thanks!

2007-02-13 16:52:16 · 3 answers · asked by happygolucky 6 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 8 1/2 years and I only remember him buying me something for St. Valentine's Day once. It is his birthday, and I feel I am getting a little dry on this day, due to the fact he never gets me anythin. Not even a card. Never mentions anything to me even. This year I decided to for get getting him anything but a card for his birthday and buying him a small box of candy. I feel I more than deserve something for V day. What are some suggestions for me to try to get him to buy me something?

2007-02-13 16:51:12 · 15 answers · asked by butterfly_261 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I actually set up my teacher's husband to prove to her that he was a cheater. She was a little pretentious, yet sweet at the same time and she did nice things for me and I did the same. She just kept passing judgement on everyone else's relationships and I found that to be messed up. I set up her husband by creating a fake email address and alias online. He took the bait and met up with me at a restauraunt . We went on a second date and ended up sleeping together. Somehow, she found out and called me every name in the dictionary. I understand her anger and I can never forgive myself. I want to pick up the phone everyday and call her to tell her how sorry I am, but can't. I feel like a coward and a tramp. I'm a young 23 year old girl and I know that I wasn't raised to be this person, I'm really sweet, I am, but I made a mistake. She forgave him, but not me. She loves him though, so I understand. She's ignored my attepts to apologize. This guilt kills me daily...what to do?

2007-02-13 16:50:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the girl that i like only talks to me when she wants me to carry her stuff an when she wants me to buy her something, when she is with other girls(her friends) she makes fun of me and she asks me to do the homework of her friends and sends me to buy things for them

2007-02-13 16:48:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been trying to maintain a civil relationship for the sake of our son but it seems the more we try the more we fight. We have very different views on how our son should be raised and he brings his new girlfriend into the situation so on top of him I have her to deal with too. What do I do?

2007-02-13 16:48:35 · 6 answers · asked by kaz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is life fair or unfair with you???

2007-02-13 16:48:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In other words, how should I celebrate my newfound freedom?

2007-02-13 16:47:53 · 8 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 16:45:46 · 9 answers · asked by scoot 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I never seen her for 2 years for now, the last time I saw her, her hair was in shoulder length, and she is Malay, honestly, she love to smile, but she never smile in photos and she never show her teeth either. Someday if I wanna fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos and using camcorder to video her, do you think she will smile? cause I don't even know how to make girls smile, and her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before, but she didn't.

2007-02-13 16:45:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His friends are gonna be there too first were gonna go out to dinner any ideas where to go after except movie and bowling?

2007-02-13 16:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 16:43:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me for the Valantine Pure Love if u feel than someone somewhere made for you with the Soul of Pure Love

2007-02-13 16:43:19 · 3 answers · asked by man_of_mask 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-13 16:42:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Straight A, MVP multi-athlete, multi-instrument musician, long distance runner, 8th grade (skipped kindergarten, never do that again). Well behaved by today's standard and loved by her family, teachers and coaches. And today my wife overheard her on her cell phone talking to her friend. She said she told mom that she had to stay after school for practice, but she's really going to "kiss him for the first time". Rules no boys in middle school, and any date in high school, we have to meet him and his parents. Plus she lied. Step one, we called coach to confirm she didn't have to stay after school, and will be picking her up before and waiting until her basketball game. She doesn't know she knows yet, but she didn't argue when we told her, so I suspect that once again, she's caught. But this one is serious. What do we do next. Conservatives, liberals, and teenagers please respond. I would like to have a complete and open outlook before I over or under react.

2007-02-13 16:42:01 · 13 answers · asked by You have 22 characters 2 in Family

I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas for a song for me to walk to in my wedding besides the bridal march. I really can't stand that song, but I can't think of a good one to put in it's place. It can be instrumental or have words. I also don't care what era it is from. I would prefer for it to have a love theme. Thanks to everyone for your help.

2007-02-13 16:41:29 · 11 answers · asked by ifernnick 2 in Weddings

Ok my bf left the house about 7 pm to go th H& R block to do his taxes and came back a little after 9 pm. I dont know I might be taking this to serious but that was a little to long to me. He said the lady didnt know what she was doing and it took long. I dont think it should take that long, no matter if somebody is having trouble doing it, and if they dont know I am pretty sure the company wouldn't leave them on there own and not fully train them in the process. But please reply, what do you think actually happened????? Serious answers only please.

If you need more info I am 20 and he is 21, dating for about a year. Yes I have trust issues but he doesn't show any affection, if he go out by himself its always 2 or more hours. I was told from some friends of mine there taxes took about 30min most, he had all his w2 and was the first person to be seen. So you tell me would it still take that long and I am not the kind of person to be snooping through his phone,

2007-02-13 16:39:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 16:39:06 · 2 answers · asked by Stanley N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-13 16:37:35 · 7 answers · asked by T J 3 in Singles & Dating

Maybe i am paranoid but sometimes when i call him from work i think i hear a female voice in the background. He is home most days while i am at work and he can never explain what he has done all day. He also occasionally comes home late from work.

2007-02-13 16:37:25 · 12 answers · asked by aussie_gurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce