I'm getting try of holding everything inside when someone say something that hurt my feeling i will smile like what they say was right. I will even laugh about it but i hold everything inside and i start thinking about how i hated the person, how i hated everyone that make me feel bad about myself. And i don't want to speak out because it may turn in to a fight and i may really end up beating someone badly up. This is really bothering me i don't want to end up hurting someone really bad. For example what happened in school today one of my friend screamed at me because i say i didn't like what she gave me. She throw cards at me and just kept making a big deal about it. My other friends started laughing and i laughed with them but I hated her even after i pretend like everything was okay . I even went to her house after school but i looked at her and i really dislike her. I don't like to keep thing inside and lately it as being really happening like that. Is this normal.
2007-02-13 16:53:00 · 6 answers · asked by Tummy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She gave you something and you didn't like it. What did you have to tell her that? You should have acted like you liked it. Do you ever consider that you are hurting your friends feelings? Try to think about what your friends are feeling. Give them sincere compliments, and treat them like they're important. They will like you even more...like magic.
2007-02-13 17:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep your hatred inside you, it is not good for your health.
I will not ask you to fight back or scream at her on how much you hate her. At times, think things positively or from a different perspective. You may then understand why she behave that way.
Don't pretend because you are making yourself suffer. If there is no way that you can endure your hatred, do speak out.
2007-02-14 00:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Annie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not the only one. The same thing happens to me. Whenever someone gets me angry or sad I nevr say anything and hold it all inside. Then I feel like I hate evryone.
2007-02-14 00:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait long enough to hate when they do this to you tell them what and how you feel about what they are doing/holding this inside only causes it to fester like an open sore,you are just as good as anyone else and remember that w/o having to wait for things to come to blows it will be alot easier to take care of as soon as it happens...........hope this helped....good luck and God Bless
2007-02-14 01:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll soon realize hating people only wastes your time thinking about the person all day and how you wish they were gone. just let go of it or ignore them.
2007-02-14 00:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by jkl; 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot somthing it helps alot
2007-02-14 01:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jacob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋