What would you do if you suspected your partner of cheating on you?

Question

Maybe i am paranoid but sometimes when i call him from work i think i hear a female voice in the background. He is home most days while i am at work and he can never explain what he has done all day. He also occasionally comes home late from work.

Answer 1

I did and I dumped him for somebody else!!!!!!

Answer 2

When you think you hear a female in the background take an hr or so off work and surprise your husband at home. If there's no one there you can think of an excuse why you had to come home. If you are close with your neighbors you could ask them too.

Answer 3

Girl, this is what I would do. One day call of from work and follow what he does and where he goes to. Since you are saying he's home take your car out of your parking lot park in like 2 streets away then run to your apartment (not inside) and hide somewhere and see who goes in n out of there. You have to be sneaky. And you could also monitor his cell phone calls. If you know his SS number and all that then u could make an account and find out who he talks to while u r at work. Then when once you see the calls you could call those numbers by blocking your number first then call those numbers and see if a girl picks up. Girl do it!!!! do not be afraid. If you have doubts go for it. If he has a computer check out what sites he visits. Okay good luck. :)

Answer 4

well come home early and randomlyand when you find out the other woman is oprah thatbe on tv and if he asking 4 sex then i say not cheating has he got areason 4 coming home late if it makes you fell better do some spying and when you see he s not do anything wrong then you can relax and sort out your jealousy remember jeaulousy is a wasted emotion

Answer 5

womens instincts are 70% of the time right, if anything is not adding up, then follow him more carefully, check phone records, and do all this behind his back, check his car milage and see if he says he hasnt gone anywehre, do anything you can to see what he is up to,, there is no reason you shouldnt, if you dont find anything then you know he is just doing what he says he is... but most likly when you suspect, you will find... is he on the pc when you arnt around? try getting a free keylogger, its stealth and only pops up with a certain key code, try googling family keylogger free ones... you can catch him up to no good on that thing, but beware, most likely you will find what you dont want to.. also set something up, see if he talks to girls online, find a girl to try and se if he will meet her, if he says sure, well then hell hunny, right there, best of luck

Answer 6

Studies say, if you suspect something then chances are you are correct. But remember CHANCES ARE. Thats doesn't mean it's correct. Take a long lunch break and go home for lunch. I assume you both are living together or married ?

Answer 7

Ask him, if he has to think about it then maybe you need to talk more about marriage counsuling and or changing your work hours to be together more. Don't give him a reason to cheat and he won't.

Answer 8

if you fee that something is not right then talk to him about what
going on. if he has not given you a reason not to trust him then
do what you think is best. your gut reactions are all way right
so just keep think simple and talk to him.

Answer 9

when we really don't know and can't see it from our five senses, we can always believe our intuition, as it never lies to us. so trust your intuition, do u feel as if there is some problem in your relationship but don't exactly know what it is, it is probably that he is cheating on u.

Answer 10

get off work early don't tell him if anything is going on walk in on them

Answer 11

hire a pi to get the proof