my mom and dad are getting a divorce..but my dad left my mom PREGNANT!now she doesn't noe what to do..my dad wants an abortion cause there not getting back together..any ideas i could help my mom thro this?
2007-02-13 17:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's really sad...Your dad probably doesn't want to pay more child support for this one...Your mom needs to do whats best for her, she can keep the baby and raise it on her own or give it up for adoption...I wouldn't let dad talk her into a abortion. There are plenty of couple who would adopt...
2007-02-13 18:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this, but your dad is a jerk! How could he want to abort his own child just because he's divorcing his wife? That is so selfish. Just be there for your mom, honey. And don't get married. Men are rubbish
2007-02-14 01:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Sasa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A pregnant mom will get plenty of support but she'll need you more. So be extra good to your mother. Tell her not to do the abortion. The memory will stay and there will be regret for the rest of both your lives. Have the baby and love her/him. She/He will bring plenty of happiness. God bless :-)
2007-02-14 01:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Nia N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this message is to your mom... never get an abortion... the baby is innocent... if you and your partner not getting back together that's ya'lls problem not the baby... have the baby and move on... tell your mom everyhting will be ok and that you will always be there for her... you are her only blood now.... take good care of her cuz you only have one mom in this life...
2007-02-14 01:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by lilsw33tazn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your mom divorce him and have the baby. Why should she murder a kid for his sake? Im sure if she needs some extra hands to help out you will be there. Make her know that you love her and you will be there for her, just dont allow her to let a man who doesnt love her dictate terms to her.
2007-02-14 01:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be supportive to both parents. This is their issue and they must find a solution. Your best option is not to choose sides but to except and support them through whatever decision they come to. Good Luck!
2007-02-14 02:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sad...I know you would like to help her, but she has to make this decision on her own. Whatever her decision, you just support. She's very lucky to have your love. Good luck to you and your mom.
2007-02-14 01:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Just be there for her, and pray that all things be well.
Also tell your mother that no matter what happens, keep that baby for God will keep her and the baby safe from harm.
Trust God and he will lead you in all truths.
Love & Prayers!
Penny
2007-02-14 01:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Renee D I think you should wait. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋