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Question

This is NOT a complaint.
Wife: I need tea, fast food, fried food, tasty food, food of choice. Husband: OK. buy, cook, eat, enjoy, marry.
Husband: I like lassi, healthy, seasonal, simple, taaza, food of my choice. Wife: No. you have no right to express. I eat ALL. You give me trouble. I can NOT cook for all. Eat what is given/offered. I never give her trouble. I simply express my need. I never ask her to eat of my choice. Manchaha khao aur manchaha khane do.
What is husband: Begger/ Financer/Fool/ Lover? I can earn more if she give me food of choice. When she is ill or in trouble, I always eat whatever is given. But when she is alright, she is not in a mood to understand my need. She ask everyone-child, damad, guest, mother, neighbourer-What will you eat? but she never ask same question to me. She tells a lot (100). I hear all. If I tell only 10, she refuse. I am NOT bad. She has fulll right to eat as per her taste. I have the same right or not? Her relatives to me:Adjust

Answer 1

This is not about food -- it is a power struggle and you are losing the battle.

Try this "wife, I love you -- I always will -- there are no conditions on my love for you!" When she believes you, you will be able to say, "I would like to make some things to eat, do you want some of this? " and then make the things you want to eat... if she likes it, she will join you.

The only way to deal with a power struggle is to not struggle.

Answer 2

It is husband's duty to fulfil wife's need, so also it is wife's duty to fulfil husband's need. She has full right to eat food of her choice,so also you have full right to tell her what do you want to eat and she is there to cook it for you and the family.
If she does not want to eat food of your choice,she can also cook food of her choice at the same time. Or she can cook food of her choice first day and second day of your choice. It is a matter of adjusting and living a life happily .
There is a proverb: Ak haath se taali nahi bajti.There for you both should try together to make your life happy.

Answer 3

tell me one thing ..Wife: I need tea, fast food, fried food, tasty food, food of choice. Husband: OK. buy, cook, eat, enjoy, marry.


have u ever cooked for her??Do that once......
then ask for the same reciprocation.she can also tell u to cook and eat for urself what u like just the way u tell her.pamper her the way u want her to pamper u...

Answer 4

i understand ur problem. But is there any problem between u guys. B'coz generally for wife's there husband's comes first.

Anyways my suggestion is that, that u should not take it any more. Just speak to her gently first, try to make her undrestand that u need ur space too. But if she is unable to understand, just tell her not to interfere but yes, for this u just can't depend on her. Just show her u can do ur own work, u can arrange anything for u. I'll not suggest u to have a fight or to leave her. Be with her but tell her that u hav eur own identity, space, habbits, taste tec..


All the best

Answer 5

Husband -To wife - My dearie, I got a New client who is lady of your age, always asking my advices. She is not leaving me till she is convinced.
Wife to Husband - Donot go out. I will cook what all you are asking for somany years !!!!!!
curtain dropped. Problem solved.

Answer 6

Try this, if she does not for choice just go out and have your meal at restaurants by yourself for a week. If she ask you why, than tell her your problems.

Answer 7

so cook your own food and let her eat as she wants.