I always wonder why when my bf goes to get his daughter he never let me see his baby mother. The other day when his baby mother came to drop her off he meet them downstairs and then later I went with him to take her home and he told me to wait in the train station. I dont like it because I always feel like he is hiding something. Before when we started dating and his baby mother came over and I was on my way over he would tell me not to come, or to wait in some store. It was only one time that he actually didnt tell me to hide and it was when I confronted him about it, but he still do it and it wasn't like he introduced us. I was just wondering is that a problem or am I just reading into it to muc? Serious answers only please
2007-02-13 17:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
To be honest she shouldn't feel bad because she has her man, but what bother me is when I browse through his messages she would say I still love you, and he doesn't even have her name in the phone book so its like he is hiding it from me.
2007-02-13 17:51:51 · update #1
maybe he is trying to protect you from her. my husbands ex is a really hateful nasty woman, and i wish i didnt know her. but we have to have a relationship so the kids dont get hurt. im sure nothing is going on. youre probably way hotter than her, and she will be getting all crazy like her kids cant be around you. thats how women are...
2007-02-14 06:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by spacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not reading too much into it if you have a serious relationship with this man. If it is a casual dating thing, then I can see why he would not include you. However, if he cares enough about you to have you around his baby, then he should not be hiding you from the mother of the baby. I would definitely talk to him about this and fast.
2007-02-14 05:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the thing he is avoiding is you.
He should most definatly ask your opinion on the matter and not just tell you no or push you aside.
Sounds rather suspiciouse to me !
I would be very leary,and I would tell him look,this child is oart of our family and I have just as much right picking her up as I do dropping her off and going up to the door.
The mother could be the jealous type,but it just realy sounds like there is something more going on..
If I were you - I would try to sit and talk to him - have a heart to heart talk with him - if that doesnt work out,then I think its time you move on.
2007-02-14 02:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just does not want to open a can of worms that does not need to be opened. How do you think she would feel to see you. She had his baby and now he is with you. Regardless of whether or not he ended it or she ended it, is there a reason you need to see her. There is no reason why you need to see her and she needs to see you so it is prob better off keeping it like that. Maybe he is afraid you would be jealous of her since she obviously slept with him before you did, or maybe she would be jealous of you because you are taking away her kids father (what she may feel and may not be true at all). Just some things to think about. Have you seen a picture of her? If you just want to know what she looks like I am sure he has one somewhere you can ask him to see and just say you are curious to see what she looks like.
2007-02-14 01:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is hiding you from his baby mother. If he was serious about you then I don't think he would make such a big effort to keep you away from her. I think he must be playing you.
2007-02-14 04:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Solid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me that he is hoping for a new relationship with the girl and could possibly be telling this girl that there is nothing going on with the two of you...i would be very suspicious of this situation
2007-02-14 07:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by futurecreationsusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he might be trying to get back with her
2007-02-14 07:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the thing he is hiding is you. Sorry...
2007-02-14 01:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by gus_zalenski 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋